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  • Birthday 08/16/1979

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  1. Are there couples who only have 3somes? I am new to the lifestyle and MFM/MFF has taken over my desire for couple play. I was just curious if anyone has ever ran across another couple like this?
  2. I live in Reno, Nevada. Um, no....I an not considering surgery and never will. Like I stated earlier, my self confidence down stairs is getting better by the day. I'm in really good shape with muscles and low body fat. This forum has really helped me a lot and has helped me focus on my positives. Another good thing my wife brought up about being average size is I can pump as hard and deep as I can. I love to give it rough and hard and would be disappointed if I was too large to thrust wildly.
  3. Great reply kids. I'm getting better by the day. Found another single guy she likes today and he is 8x6! Jees. This streak of finding guys larger than me has to be close to 20 now. I'm embracing guys with big ones now. I know she can take a lot because of the toys we have and I know she will enjoy it. Just for her to be stretched out by a fat one has to feel better than mine and I'm anxious to see all the pleasure she gets. All the noises and faces she makes that I haven't seen. I told her to please tell me if she finds that she prefers a big cock to an average one and we can try and find her some. I just want her to be totally pleased.
  4. lol. I already apologized for doubting her. I never put two and two together but when I give blood it takes hardly any time at all to complete. I will come in after tons of people and leave before. Maybe this has something to do with the hardness factor that she says is unique. I've never heard of differences between mens erections or even thought about it until we started this journey. I guess it makes sense though.
  5. I can't believe there is some truth to larger guys not being as rock hard. When I get hard there is no bending it and I can't push it down to face the floor. I guess I owe my wife an apology for doubting her. Squishier....hmm
  6. I'm slowly coming to grips with my size. Thank you for all the replies. From now on I'm only concentrating on being the best lover I can and if my penis prohibits that with certain women then so be it.
  7. Yeah there are. Good idea. The single guy we had our first experience with (where I failed to get hard) contacted us today. My plan is see the doc for some blue pills just for the extra confidence boost and give it another shot. He seems like a nice respectable guy too. This sounds funny but if we have a drink and get to know him better I think it will help me. EDIT: I forgot to mention. I have never taken viagra before. Do you get hard even when you're not thinking about sex or is it triggered by desire?
  8. My girth is not above average to be clear. It's on the thin side. Why so insecure? Good question. Probably because I watch porn, listen to the size my wife's past lovers, never had a woman besides my wife give me input, only gotten replies from larger men in our early career, and a host of other early development issues.
  9. So you feel that the average is a bit higher in the swinging community?
  10. I'm prepared for being with many women who don't cum through penetration. It will be strange for me because my wife is extremely lucky in that department. Lucky like 5+ in a 20 minute period. Another thing that amplifies my anxiety is that I met my wife in high school and have never been with another woman. Knowing this you probably can understand why I have so many things running through my mind. I really want it and I love my wife to death. We'll get there. Thanks for everything.
  11. Funny. I say I have enough to hurt her and gag her. If she wanted that of course. I was actually doing good with my size until every single guy we contacted was larger. Like I said, probably just bad luck. I felt and still feel actually like I will always be the small male of the two. It's not a requirement that I be larger and I actually like the thought of my wife being with a larger man but I would like to feel average normal too. With time I guess.
  12. I do all that with my wife but just need to get over the penis insecurity to do it with others. Our first times was MFM, couldn't get hard. Second was a couple, couldn't get hard. Third was a Skype session and couldn't even get hard for that. Depressing. I tell myself just do the things I do on my wife to her but my mind starts thinking if she will be disappointed and many other things. Frustrating!
  13. That actually helps me Angel. Thx. This theme of bigger men not being as hard is fascinating. The problem I'm having the most trouble with is girth. I'm under 5 inches around and it seems every guy is thicker and all you hear from women is that length doesn't matter much but girth does. Is a woman let down if they play with a partner who is noticeably thinner than what she's used to?
  14. Exactly how I feel. I know how she acts when she has a big one and it is different than with me. Sometimes I just wish she would admit it and not try to spare my feelings. I did get her to fess up to preferring my cock to be thicker. So you don't think the 5-6 average is for real huh? Interesting. How do the men in hear deal with a couple where the man is obvioulsy thicker and maybe longer. Do you feel that whoever is with you is losing and whoever gets the other man is winning? I can't shake this feeling right now. A feeling that everyone brings something to playtime but me. Stupid I know but it's how I'm feeling. Are we married to the same woman? Word for word what mine says. I believe her but it's not easy.
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