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Cuda

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About Cuda

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 02/13/1957

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    M.male
  • Location
    East Tennessee
  • Swinging Experience
    1 year
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    Cuda
  1. Not sure how the title got changed but I do have a "Smart Phone".... My problem is That I had no knowledge of this guy what so ever until he showed up at the party. Its no one that I have ever met nor had we talked about inviting him, Something she did on her own by herself with no input from me. We have only been with single males other than one time I took one for the team in the year and a half that we have been swinging(if you want to call it that). If I show an interest in someone I'm told that I only come there with sex on my mind(im so smiling)or she has a problem with that person so I back off being that this is somthing we both have to be comfortable with(RIGHT?). So I asked about us texting other people and if it was within our bounderies to invite these people and all hell breaks loose. We have talked about just being guys in the last month or so and when were we going to get a female in the mix. There are a several couples that have told us they are interested which I find inerest in and I thought she did also because of the play and flirting but for some reason nothing ever comes of it and if I say something I'm just wanting to play with her??????? Only one of us is swinging and I have a problem with that which I have stated and the answer is she is done with swinging until the next weekend comes and it starts again. Also every time I go I'm not looking to hook up, I'm just out with friends having a good time. I dont need to see your Tits every week but once a month would be good...
  2. I'll try and fill in some blanks.... She had known this guy before we met and to my knowledge they were just friends(No Problem) about a year ago she asked if he could come with us to a party the day of the party but since I had never met him I told her I didnt feel comfortable with it. (They had been texting that day). Have never heard any more about it until he showed up at the party and she brought him over to introduce him to me telling me look who I found here and asked if I remembered about us talking about him which I did remember. Still no big deal with me except it did raise my thoughts. He had never been to a swingers party and had never done anything like it before. In fact we got along well. We went out to smoke just the two of us and during the conversation he brought up the party and how she had told him about it when he had texted her the day before. Im really suprised because I really had no knowledge that they texted(about once a month by her words) until I ask about it. She then told me that she didnt ask him to come just told him about it but what was the problem if she had. That he had been trying to hook up with her long before we met. As far as what our agreement as to texting people concerning swinging is there is no agreement, never been brought up. I have tryed to talk with her but it doesnt go very far, she says that Im making a big deal about nothing trying to make her look like she had done something wrong. I asked if it was alright for me to ask people to come with us and she gets mad and says I can screw anybody I want. That comes to another problem, we only play with single males, its not her fault that there are no single females. There are couples that have told us of their interest but for some reason we never act on those.
  3. My gf invited a guy to a party that we were going to which i had no knowledge of. Him and I went to smoke and he mentioned that he had texted her and it came up. I didn't know they texted, never met him before other than her asking about him about a year ago. Come to find out he has been trying to hook up with her before we were together. Really got under my skin... would you be upset with your partner?
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