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About snyderleeann

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  • Birthday 11/05/1961

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Indiana
  • Swinging Experience
    5 yrs
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    thenextdoorcouple
  • SwingerZoneCentral Username
    snyderleeann
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Club 440 in Milford, OH

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  1. Her preference is just that she has constant attention and at least one hard cock going at all times. She enjoys both about equally, I think.
  2. Thanks. I wasn't talking so much about rules at all, just asking what preferences were. I'm starting to figure out my own preferences. Besides, who really knows what they like if it's brand new, such as it is with us? I was so desiring complete control at about the time he went for a break, and it was awesome when I got it. Then, when I was not minding taking a break, he stepped right in and kept her going. We'll work it out just fine, but it's always good to hear what others have figured out.
  3. We've now had four MFMs and are maybe starting to get it figured out, but want some opinions. I think the first three guys were uneasy with a second male participating (I think they thought I'd just watch them have at her), even though it was plainly stated that I'd be actively involved. The latest two nights ago was excellent, the guy was very comfortable with it and even encouraged her to fuck me harder while he was working over her other end. When he went to the bathroom for a short break, the sex between the two of us was incredible. Afterwards, I figured out that my preference is to take turns at her, with enough threesome to overwhelm her senses also. Maybe 50% taking turns and about 50% double-teaming by us guys. She seems to like that proportion also. Sometimes it has seemed to be a lot of work coordinating two cocks, but she likes it very much. What do you all like proportionately? (Of course, it should be as the situation calls for at the time, but you've got to have a preference!) Please tell if you're him or her.
  4. We had our very first dp two nights ago. It was cowgirl, the other guy was on bottom (he is huge girth), and I slid in the back side. It was tough getting it in even though I am fairly long and thin. I think the pillow under the other guy's butt would have helped, because the angle of entry was just too low for me. I kept sliding into her pussy, which was very fun. I didn't stay in there because I wasn't sure how the other guy felt about the contact. I will certainly ask before our next one because I think it was much easier to pull off and would feel amazing. That said, once I had the angle down pat and went to town, she was cumming within a minute. It was a lot of work for me, but any orgasm she has makes it worth the effort!
  5. We are first and foremost, voyeurs & exhibitionists. We've had two mfms and they were fun, but even though both guys were dry from previous cancers (neither ejaculate), we were still so nervous about pregnancy & disease. I realize you can be pretty safe w/condoms, but we prefer zero chance. That little doubt that pops into your head the next day or ten takes away a lot of the fun for us. Also, she is not comfortable seeing me do another woman and I do not strongly crave it (don't get me wrong - all sex sounds super fun), but I'm not just dying to have someone else. She is an absolute blast in bed and satisfies me just fine. Given our fear of pregnancy & disease, our non-need for me & another woman, and our satisfaction with our own sex lives, we're just after the excitement of being in a super-charged atmosphere. That can be in an on-premise club or with another soft-swap couple in a hotel room. Granted, our limitations cause us to have to work extra hard to find matches on sls and swz, etc. We do not enjoy that effort. Most couples that will actually follow through with meeting don't want us because we tell them up front that we don't swap. The couples that are OK with just watching/being watched are usually newbies and often back out when it's time to meet. Thus, our extreme fondness of on-premise clubs Our desires are well-met there.
  6. We have only been to an on-premise club twice and have never been to off-premise or house party. Given all that we've read here, we think we would much prefer on-premise. Our experience was at Club 440 in/near Cincy. She never got grabbed, although other men enjoyed looking plenty when she was exposed. As mentioned above, due to kids and expense, it is very handy to have play area at the club - we don't have to reserve a room and hope something works out. Also, we are relative newbies even though we are no longer nervous about doing things such as going to the club. We don't swap, although we've had a couple of mfms. We are more into the atmosphere, getting to watch people of all shapes and sizes in sexual settings, and getting to have sex in front of others. We wish that we lived closer to that club than 4 hours and are planning to check out a couple of other clubs closer to home. We have nothing but good things to say about on-premise.
  7. I absolutely enjoy watching, but enjoy being watched nearly as much. My wife is not much into watching, although she will stop to watch a large, hard cock working over another woman. After a couple of glasses of wine however, she is all about exhibiting for others
  8. I occasionally am able to time it to where I can stave off an orgasm, but yet still ejaculate...which means I am able to continue indefinitely. I'm not talking a dribble, it's a good squirt or four. It takes perfect timing and makes for our best sex, especially when I can pull off that perfect timing multiple times in a row. The benefit is that it puts me into what we call "superman" mode, where I can get her off several times without having to back down from the precipice. That doesn't happen except with careful timing, and then only once in a while, but when it happens we both enjoy immensely. Anyone else experienced this?
  9. A friend turned us on to wivelovers.com. It's OK. I can't wait to check out the suggestions above. Thanks. Oh...and ditto on the real couples vs young beautiful air-brushed actors!
  10. That is a great idea! Would encourage those of us that are just dipping our toes in to be more relaxed.
  11. We are still in the hunt for our first, but it's no comparison. Mature and confident rather than buff and cocky.
  12. We are new (as it sounds most people are) and don't intend to swap although the Mrs. wants to do an mfm sometime soon (with my encouragement). We've found it EXTREMELY hard to meet decent couples, even single males, on sls. We're thinking of maybe going to a club with our hard boundaries because we can actually MEET the people. Watching? You're danged right But, we'll be naked ourselves and adding to the show by playing amongst ourselves!
  13. We are experiencing much of this. We just thought that it was our profile - we aren't full-swap, but many profiles state that they are tame/mod/wild and they respect boundaries. But then they just disappear. We're very possibly full-out mfm if it clicks, so you'd think at least some decent single guys would jump at the chance (not talking about the super-rude, "look at my package, ain't it great" types). Judging from the replies above, we'll probably have to join the party scene even though that isn't our cup of tea. This is getting to be a lot of work...
  14. In guys, she likes everything except thick and long pubes - it needs to be trimmed. Shaved is OK. He likes anything. He's a guy.
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