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luckystar505

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About luckystar505

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/01/1979

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    Single Male
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    Philadelphia
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  1. This sums everything up and now I understand why I feel somewhat ostracized and disposable as a single guy.
  2. Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum as well as the swinging lifestyle as I have always been in monogamous relationships. I'm a single, childfree, 32 year old athletic male who loves the bachelor lifestyle. Now on to my story/question: Around my late 20's I did lots of research on sex, relationships, and explored all the various ways I could have sex in America (with women as I'm straight) and I found that one potential area could be to attend swinger clubs, or be a 3rd wheel for a couple in private. I figured I could get what I want (no strings attached sexual encounter), and the couple could get what they want (i.e., to fulfill a fantasy). Now as I proceeded to do more research, and got closer to setting something up, I realized something about swing culture after reading so many ads online, pricing the swing club fees, and watching interviews with swingers, and that is, there's a gender bias towards women, and single men are heavily scrutinized, viewed with suspicion, and sometimes treated with hostility. For example: • Single men pay higher fees to get into swing clubs • Single men are often not allowed to attend swing events • Women have much higher status then men in the swing culture (instead of being the same) So, instead of me now viewing swingers as a group of people who enjoy sex for the sake of it, I can't help but now view swingers as a FEMALE dominated subculture where men are basically used as live sex toys. So what's the deal? Am I right on my assessment of the swing culture? And what happened to the days of the late 1960's where everybody got "free love" and enjoyed sex for the sake of it?
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