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  1. Can I propose a (IMHO most likely) explanation here? Maybe they are slightly loony? Or at least on a totally different page then where you are at. In any case, just avoid them and consider yourselves lucky to have dodged the drama-bullet. See, the term does have it's uses!
  2. Which we all know is never going to happen. To summarize what I wrote on the blog: - Labels are a tool for communication and identification, not to "define". - Labels are fluid - Nobody agrees on most labels - People pick their own, and we should respect them where possible - "Progressive" sounds political, but everything around sex can be considered political these days. - LoTSS never meant to demean anybody with their self-assigned labels Ok? Now, lets hug it all out!
  3. Just curious: How would you feel if you found out your husband was getting blowjobs someplace, without telling you? Can you see how some wives may not be on board with this, even if they were swingers?
  4. > - do other couples test it out like that too ? Yes, its a great idea. The first time you are there, you should commit to only watching, chatting and potentially having sex with each-other. > - what are the things my wife & I should discuss beforehand ? Discuss your rules. What are you going to do? What aren't you going to do? What are you going to do if something goes wrong? Whats the "codeword" for when you want to pull the emergency break? What are you going to tell other couples when they ask about you? Are you going to use your real names? > - It might sound silly, but what do u actually wear to a swingers club ? for females I could imagine some hot lingerie. but what about the guys ? Anything that makes you feel good, sexy & confident. >- any other good advice ? This board has a pretty good handbook that you may want to check out.
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