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StewartP last won the day on September 26 2012

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About StewartP

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    Oh Oui! J'aime ça!
  • Birthday 11/15/1962

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    Couple, but M on the keyboard
  • Location
    Angoulême, France
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    xx/xx/xxxx

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    dylans16

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  1. Relax people, you can't catch the gay. I wish I could it would open my opportunity for play by 100% The swinger world has this weird double standard about male homosexuality, girl on girl action? hawt!! I might touch the guy's thight during a threesome? oh noes! teh gay! But yep, cowgirl, other positions you see in pornfilms are tricky to pull off and keep going. Don't forget double vaginal: very intense! as always it's the woman who calls the shots, she's in control of making everything stop. The 2 guys are accomplices in her pleasure.
  2. It's crazy! I was with a woman yesterday: She was giving me a superb blowjob, it felt fantastic, and as usual I was having trouble letting go. I told her that I have a hard time coming from blow jobs and I was worried she'd get tired or bored and she said, "I love doing this, and I really want you to come in my mouth, I want to taste you" So how much of a green light is that? I told her to go for it! But 5 minutes laters same problem, and I knew it wasn't going to get any better But now problem coming from prenetration a few minutes later!!?? what's wrong with my brain? Well, there are worse problems to have LOL!
  3. Fiona is not on the pill (I've had a vasectomy) so the pregnancy risk, plus our STD paranoia means her partners can't come in her.
  4. For most of our married life Fiona didn't like me cumming in her mouth and on the rare occasion I did she always spat it out into a tissue. My fault for not discussing it but I always figured it was better than no blow job. Only about 4 years ago, after she went through a "flowering", lost weight and decided to try everything has she become less uptight and now oes all the way. But I'm still blocked and find it really difficult to come from a blowjob. I LOVE it, it feels fantastic, and when I do come it's very strong and long, but damn it's hard work for me to just relax and enjoy. Not just Fiona, it's with all women. I also get anxious when I'm taking a long time, I start thinking "damn she'll be getting lock-jaw any second" and then that gets in the way too. Ah well, practice makes perfect! (ps, We have talked a lot about it. We are far more comunicative and open about our feelings since we started swinging. Fi understands why I'm a bit blocked about it, but she loves the pleasure it gives me, and she's more than willing)
  5. Feedback: We met them outside the club, charming intelligent people. She was a little too self-obsessed, when we were dancing she migrated off to the big mirror and watched herself dance for a bit.. ??? BUT... Fiona didn't fancy him AT ALL and after a while she told me she didn't want to go any further!! So I had the fun job of breaking the news.... But they were very gracious and understanding, we broke it off fairly early they still had plenty of time to hook up with someone else, plus this club was like their local, they knew EVERYBODY there! So end result... We didn't get it on. Fi said she thought about "taking one for the team" but she's done that once before and it wasn't a good experience, I'm glad she didn't do it again.
  6. Fiona normally locates and chats to the guys she is interested in on the websites. She then runs him by me, and I'll try and get in a 1-on-1 chat with him.... If he can't talk with me then he's lost out. I'll talk about trios and if he isn't up for a threesome he's got no hope of flying solo!! I'll also ask if he's OK with me speaking to the people he has listed in his testimonials. I can't really put into words what I'm looking for when I chat with him, respect for us as a couple, self confidence but a bit of humility thrown in the mix. When we do a MFM he and I are going to get pretty close, physically as well as in other ways, he needs to be my accomplice, not my rival.
  7. I just checked again, it's 73 testimonials spread out since 2008!! So they're not that bad! looks like they meet up about twice a month. I spoke to Cathy on the phone a few minutes back to confirm and organise time, she sounds lovely. She said all the right things.
  8. We're meeting a couple tonight at a club. In fact we'll probably meet them before going to the club in a café where we can chat a bit and get to know each other. Here's my little worry. Their profile on the swinger site we use has a zillion galleries of them taken by pro photographer. They are great looking and in great shape physically. They also have about 80 testimonials on their page from couples and singles they have been with. I'm just a bit worried that we might not be up to their expectations! I keep thinking why would they choose to be with us when they could have any of these fantastic people. Fiona and I are bright and funny, I realise that we are attractive, but these 2 are bit special! Fiona is in great shape, but I've put on a few kilos since Christmas and I'm not feeling very sure of myself!! No doubt I'm overthinking it again! I don't want my brain to troll me tonight when I should be having the time of my life! So I'm waiting for all your encouraging words
  9. We are in France so it's probably not applicable: netechangisme.com A pay site. The first site we signed with and still the best for getting results, the people there seem to be motivated and experienced. nouslibertins.com A pay site Much better functionality, really well designed site and a joy to use. You can leave you private photos open to other people for fixed periods of time, a history of who you've visited, historic of all chats, really good. But seems to have lots of chat and never gets to real meets. Also a high proportion of newbies. adopteunmec.com. Free for women, men pay. Men can only contact women who first contact them. The site is based on the concept of a supermarket, the men are the product, the women add or remove them from their shopping carts. Intended as a dating site it also has women who are looking for "friends with benefits" Since Fiona and I now occasionally meet solo I have got to play with some really lovely women here. For economy reasons we can't justify running three pay sites every month so we will drop adopteunmec and nouslibertins. The women I have met and am currently chatting to can continue via MSN. Also to be realistic there just isn't time to play with all the people who we fancy!! We should concentrate on giving the best of ourselves to the great people we have already met.
  10. Similar, I have a solo profile and I state in my profile that I'm in a relationship and Fiona is OK with it. Many women find it refreshing that there is no deception, and many are also reassured that any new relationship will stay friendly, no romantic complications. And one of the hookups is very likely to progress to FMF so another unicorn found!
  11. In France all alcohol adverts by law have to have the words "à consomer avec modération" or "to be consumed in moderation". Every man and his tog has turned the phrase around "à consomer sans moderation" On swinger websites when people leave commentaries on profiles this phrase has become such a cliché
  12. People who describe themselves as "beginners" when they've been subscribed to a site for over 2 years, and still have no profile photo. Profiles that are single female but from the description you find out it is actually a couple and now you have no info on the man at all.
  13. I think part of our hangup is down to insecurity. I have a hard time seeing what a couple in their early twenties would find attractive in us as we approach 50. I'd also be worried that a young couple, lacking experience would be less forgiving and expect the performance and endurance they get from thir peers.
  14. Fi and I are nearly 50. We have a hard time feeling comfortable with people under 30. At 22 have to say I wouldn't stand a chance with you, I would be too freaked out. Why? I can't really say. Fiona once went with a young man of 26 last year. She wasn't keen, couldn't see why he would be interested (it was at a multicouple party) but I told her to go for it, tyry everything once. She said it was flattering and fun bnut she found him physically too "young and soft" (maybe she was saying that to spare my feelings LOL!)
  15. I am SUCH a sucker for a women with glasses. That whole secretary/schoolmarm thing really works for me. My ideal playmate: red hair, freckles, glasses, petite.
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