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Danielle87

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About Danielle87

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  • Birthday 05/26/1987

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Virginia
  • Swinging Experience
    Brand new!
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  1. Thanks for the info, two4you! We do not have a SwingLifestyle profile. We'll have to look into setting one of those up. Thanks for the advice! He has a bit of a weird schedule, so that doesn't help. We do visit the Richmond area fairly frequently, though, so that's definitely an option. We are a younger couple (in our 20s), but I'm concerned about getting involved in the university crowd because of the indiscretion and drama that could ensue. Of course, those things are possible at any age, but I think we would generally prefer someone more mature for now as we are just starting out. Thanks for the information you gave me! This really helps a lot
  2. Doug, we live about an hour and a half west of Richmond. Little town called Farmville (yep, the Facebook game is an actual place :p).
  3. Does anyone here live in a fairly rural area? We live in a very small town in a rural area and it's hard to find other like-minded couples. There are a couple larger cities about an hour and a half away, but it just makes the whole thing more difficult. Does anyone have any advice for rural couples looking to get into the lifestyle? Thanks!
  4. I agree with you MN_Tom. When we first got there he wasn't completely bombed and he was still quite abrasive. So far I have not heard back from them, so maybe it will work itself out and we won't have to do the awkward "We're not compatible."
  5. Doug, we are very new to this as well, so take this with a grain of salt if you prefer My boyfriend was VERY nervous before we got started and to be honest, we both had a couple drinks during the initial meetup with our first couple. On the other hand, the male half of the other couple got EXTREMELY drunk and that is not at all appealing, trust me. If your wife won't do it without being drunk, A) it will be a turnoff to the other person/people and B) she will likely resent you if things go farther than she wants. You're right, it probably will help to just go for it and a drink or two might help with nerves, but I would not get your wife drunk before doing it.
  6. Thank you, I agree. It is unfortunate, but we don't want to latch onto the first people we meet, especially since he was so abrasive.
  7. So we went out and met this couple last night at a bar. We really clicked with the girl - she was super sweet and funny and cute. But her boyfriend got sloppy drunk and was EXTREMELY forward and rude and even braggy. I'm all for honesty, but within 15 minutes of meeting them he was asking very personal questions. I also felt like the conversation totally centered around him and what he wanted, when the original plan was for it to just be the girls playing this time while the guys watched. He kept asking me (the female in our couple) personal questions, while at times completely ignoring my bf and his gf. We ended up leaving without going home with them and I'm really glad about that. It seemed that in his state things would have ended up going badly. It's just unfortunate that we clicked so well with her when her boyfriend was so rude and off-putting. I'm wondering the best way to tell her that we really liked her but that things probably won't work out because of her boyfriend... Maybe we can try to meet again without the drinking? In any case, we learned a lot and my boyfriend (who was a little nervous to begin with) feels a lot more comfortable with the prospect of swinging. We'll keep looking for a better fit. I'm so glad to have found this community of supportive and helpful people
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