Jump to content

FullSwing

Registered
  • Content Count

    7
  • Joined

  • Days Won

    1

FullSwing last won the day on August 1 2011

FullSwing had the most liked content!

Community Reputation

79 Excellent

About FullSwing

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 11/07/1972

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Forney
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. I sincerely apologize for my bad language. I have received a message from the board stating that I need to clean it up, etc. Gordo, you don't know me or us. My husband and I are working through a very difficult ordeal. We have a very long marriage and children we are trying to save. I simply needed some unbiased opinions from people who would know better than your average Joe. I have read and taken to heart every comment made here, and because of many of the more helpful ones, have reconciled and begun to move forward with my husband. If your only purpose here is to be hurtful and judgmental, please do not bother. To those who took time out of their day to honestly try and help us heal, thank you, thank you, thank you.
  2. Thanks, Gordo, for fucking it all up. I had some great, eye opening responses. It is NOT that I didn't know I had messed up. But, NO, what he did was exactly the opposite of what he should have done. It was my impression that we are supposed to help people with these posts and seek help when something gets really messed up. But you, you take the cake. You have done nothing but be spiteful and hateful. Take your crap ass advice elsewhere.
  3. I am so grateful for all of your posts. They truly did help me get a grip on the situation. I had him stay away from the house (only when I was home, he saw the kids) until Friday. I left work and made a beeline for the hotel he was staying in. When he opened the door, all the pain just went away. I think we made love twice before we even spoke. We both made terrible mistakes, got drunk and broke rules. I just can't be away from this man! We both learned a great deal from the whole experience. Mostly, we are in love and can get forgive each other anything. We try not to dwell on the details of the situation and I have found it easier than I imagined to put it behind us.
  4. oh God Alura! I would never say something like that. I love him and his dick! It's more bringing up what happened, not putting down.
  5. I should say at first he lied and said he was caught up in the moment and stayed at the hotel and had sex with her. This was Saturday. Said he could stay and we would try to work things out. Did not want to alarm the kids. Monday he told the truth. They did get dressed, leave and go to her place. At this point I had to insist he go until I could get a grip on it. I can have an acid tongue, and I didn't want to continue tearing him down every time I saw him. I am feeling better and we are talking. I thank you all for taking the time to help me with this. Today was better than yesterday. Tomorrow will be better still. Feeling more like I can get past it instead of sure I can't. Trying not to let him come back until I know I'm not going to punish him for it forever. I love him too much.
  6. My husband and I will be married 16 years in November. We have crazy fantastic sex together on a very regular basis. We decided to try out the swinging lifestyle and see how we liked it. We looked at the forums and spoke extensively about our boundaries and what we wanted. No friends, either singles (men for me or women for both) or committed couples, everybody in tune. We went out last Friday and broke every single rule, way too drunk on top of it all. Got a hotel, each with a partner. Mine, a young guy, and his a casual friend we have known a long time. Being our first time, I was very in tune with what was going on on his side, but he was so damn drunk. When we were done, they were still going. They asked and knew we were done, but they continued on for another 15 minutes until I couldn't take it anymore. I got up, turned on the light and got dressed. My husband was also getting dressed at this point. Told them I would be downstairs. They never came down. I waited awhile and started walking home. We were within about 2 miles. They never came. Got home and waited for 15 minutes and he finally came home and we fought, of course. Upon further questioning it was finally revealed that while I was walking home, he took her to her place and they had sex again. I have asked him to move out until I can come to grips with it. We have had an honestly blissful marriage for so long. He has always put me and the kids on a pedestal and has never given me a reason to question his faithfulness. I snooped, with his knowledge, the phone and text records, and there was nothing. He is the man I thought he was, but WTF happened? I should never have left (drunk, duh) but I never questioned that he would be right behind me. It was never a matter of IS he coming, but WHEN. He wants to come home, and has been crying for days. Has anybody been through this and come out the other side okay?
  7. This entire post has made me so happy:D We have not had our first experience yet, and the stretch mark thing has been heavy on my mind. Now I'm ready to play!
×
×
  • Create New...