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rainbowskye last won the day on December 26 2011

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  • Birthday 12/19/1973

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    Single ~ Female
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    ATL, GA
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  1. After reading this a second time....it sounds like he doesn't care about his wife as much as he claims. Not willing to stop this with the other woman. Not willing to tell his wife. To me...she will find out and she will be devastated. He seems not to care about that. He cares more about how the other husband will react. Cheaters never win.
  2. Not exactly ....they complained that you could see them in the back of the building outside having g sex ruining the view from their over priced apartments. And they complained that you could see them doing the same from the krispy kreme across the street. Where this place is at is in our midtown area and this end of the street is where all the dealers and workers are. Yet they did not complain about that.
  3. I meant to add...the gay bar serves its purpose as an adult theater or it did prior to the raid.
  4. I've not seen any adult theatres in ages. The last in I knew of was in Santiago Chile. That was the last one I saw and that was in 96. Here in Atlanta I know we have jerk bars but that's about it. at least that I know of. We do have a gay bar that was involved in a raid due to on premise sex happening inside and outside of the club and the hipsters in the area made a big fuss to the mayor thus leading into a raid followed by a lawsuit followed by city employees losing their jobs for following the directive of the then police chief.
  5. It is the doubt that just bc this is a 'girl' that a mN wouldn't react violently that is naive . There are men every day who beat the living shit out if women. How do you guys know she isn't messing with one of them . Or what if a guy uncovers it and doesn't care but someone else that was with her previously is there when it is uncovered and snaps? I limit my chances at all cost if being in the cross fire. I've lived a colorful life and have seen all types of things go down in various sexual worlds ....and this is something id have no desire to condone as the after math could vicious. You can't assume how others will or won't react to do so only increases the risk. You say she has sex with them face to face....what if they see her at a singers club and it is revealed? There is no way to predict it won't be uncovered nor to predict someone's reaction. I pray when it is uncovered that the victim doesn't have anger issues. Everything in the dark comes to the light ....everything. It is a matter of time.
  6. Have you considered what would happen if you ran into someone that's knows you guys or your spouses and outs you to your husband and his wife? I think that would trigger your husbands abuse.
  7. Galanga .... Have you seen the movie Boys don't cry? Perhaps you and your friend should watch this.
  8. I don't see anyone promoting violence. Again something that was over analyzed. That is deception that if someone found out and was homophobic they wouldn't be like oh well they would be full of anger and rage and when someone gets to that point violence does come out. It is something that if you are going to be naive enough to think nobody will ever know then you should have enough common sense to prepare for the worst. Having frequented many gay clubs in Atlanta I've had the pleasure of knowing many Ts men and women. One woman, and I still style her hair to this day, has told me how when men would ask her out and she would be upfront that she was still a he and they would have rage that was out of control. So yes, I see this eventually blowing up in someone's face and not in a good way. Perhaps you too aren't looking at all angles of what could happen because you condone it. This type of deception is much different than someone saying they are 35 instead if 40. This crosses boundaries for men who may not be willing to cross these boundaries If they knew they truth. Condoning this in this manor and participating in the deception is not something id be willing to do. It is out of respect for others and for moral reasons that i would not. I asked my Ts friend about this and she stated that she would not do this nor be a part of it due to the reaction of the victims being unpredictable. Many in the glbt communities have experienced so much violence already in their lifetime to allow the younger generations to simply be who they are openly. This is just a bitch slap in the face to those who endoured the struggles to make it happen.
  9. I didn't see one person say they would out them. I saw ppl say the deception is wrong. Did I miss something ? Are you over analyzing what was said?
  10. I couldn't agree more. The comparisons are not on an equal level. regardless of she identifies she is still a he. I do understand the ts in some cases but until she is fully converted to a she...she is still a he. I don't know too many straight men who would enjoy being punked like this.
  11. It should be about honesty not deception. Clearly you condone this level of deception not my cup of tea.
  12. I wouldn't condone it. I wouldn't participate. At so some point in time one of these blokes will make the discovery and if it is someone who doesn't understand transgendered people and he snaps....he is going to hurt her severely. If he is very homophobic it could be worse.
  13. I know of a person, my ex, who had primary contact with another woman via text and email. Very little face to face personal time.... It was a disaster. Anyone can be anything they want behind text and email. Continual face to face on a regular basis it a whole different ballgame. This is a risk that if I loved my spouse of 25 years I would not take. I dont see anyone angry with you, they are just pointing out the obvious. Sometimes we ask for advice and want to hear it a certain way when in reality what we hear is what we NEED to hear. I am not discounting your feelings. You may be in love with the person you know via the swinging, texting and emailing.... but that lady may not be who you really think she is. I've seen this SO MUCH when relationships begin via the internet. This is really no different as you have had little one on one time with her. Once you do go behind your spouses backs...it is cheating and your wife and her husband very well may be less forgiving.
  14. Nothing good can cone of this. It sounds more like infatuation than love. If you love your wife like you say you do, you will tell her. Dragging it on will only cause more and more pain. To me, that's not love at all, it is selfishness . You can't have your cake and eat it too.
  15. When I was not out of commission I really just played as I felt like it. It was usually twice a month ir once a month. It varies by couple on what they consider too much for them. If it becomes overwhelming or is taking over then in my opinion it's too much. You still need your time spent together to maintain balance.
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