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Thanks for the kind words everyone! We are meeting another couple tonight and we are all so excited for it, the sexy texts and pictures have been flying back and forth all week, I feel like we are all going to rip eachothers' clothes off as soon as we get over to their place, hahaha

First, I'll lead by saying I'm a guy who has now had both kinds of threesomes. Despite the FMF variety being one of my biggest fantasies and all, I found that what happened in reality did not live up to my expectations of it. I felt a lot of pressure to perform and felt bad when I came really quickly (sensory overload!). I was also preoccupied with trying to spend equal time with both girls because I was slightly paranoid my GF would get jealous since we are new to this stuff. Basically was just unable to really let go, and while I had a good time it wasn't perfect. However, we had agreed to try both kinds of threesomes, so it was her turn to be in the middle and receive more pleasure than she could ever imagine. We made a post on the r4r subreddit asking for guys who were down to share a lady with me and got a lot of responses. We looked through them together and picked a guy who she thought was attractive and who seemed nice based on our PM conversation with him. For the rest of the story, I'll use fake names for privacy's sake, but here's how it went down. We'll call my GF "Sarah" and the third guy "Eric." We met at a bar a couple blocks from our apartment, so it would be easy to get back there if we wanted this to go down. Neither of us had never done anything like this before, meeting a stranger for a possible sexual encounter, but it was surprisingly easy. Once we found each other at the bar, we got a table on the outside patio and had no trouble at all having nice conversation between the three of us. Eric was a small business owner only a few years older than us (impressive!), who was in town on business for a week. After a couple of pitchers between the three of us, Eric excused himself to go to the bathroom and I asked Sarah "Should we go for this?" She looked at me, nodded, and said "lets get out of here." Back at our place with him, we sat on the couch and smoked some bowls out of my vaporizer, all of us knowing what was coming next but unsure of how to get things started. I turned to Sarah and whispered in her ear "Just go over there, sit on his lap and start kissing him." That should get things going pretty quickly. That it did. Mid-sentence in our conversation, Sarah stood up, grabbed the cup of water out of his hand, set it on the table, and straddled him in the chair. She kissed him, first with a little bit of hesitation, but then with this fiery passion that I've only seen when she was the horniest of horny. Light kisses turned into full on making out, and as I sat there watching them, the full realization of what was happening hit me. "I'm watching my GF make out with another guy, and it's turning me on more than anything." They were going at it, hands were all over, and the clothes were coming off. I was sitting there just taking in the sights, fantasizing about what would happen next. Sarah wasted no time, getting up and yelling "Bedroom, NOW" at both of us. At this point she was down to these sexy little purple boyshorts and a blue polka dotted bra, spread out on the bed, shaking her butt at us. We started by both giving her a massage, putting our hands all over her body, rubbing, teasing, making her want us. She looked like she was in heaven, feeling the sensation of multiple sets of hands caressing her and the reality that she had two men all to herself. The moans were frequent, she was squirming all over the bed, and we hadn't even taken her panties off yet. When I went to do that, she had soaked all the way through the fabric and the wetness was literally dripping out onto the bed. I don't think I'd ever seen her this wet before. I looked at Eric and said "Feel how wet her pussy is, it's incredible." He stroked it with his finger and said "Wow." Sarah looked at me and said "why are you still wearing clothes?," which was a pretty good question. I quickly got naked, and the fun really began. Eric and I teamed up on the foreplay, taking turns going down on her and using our fingers while the other one focused on her face, neck, and breasts. We switched positions frequently, sometimes she had one of our cocks in her mouth while the other one was going down on her, sometimes she was kissing one of us while the other massaged her and teased her all over. With his cock in her mouth, Eric said to me "Man, she's good at this. You are a lucky man." Sarah was insatiable, demanding my cock in her mouth and writhing in pleasure as he finger-fucked her while kissing her thighs and her huge clit. "Face fuck me!" She yelled. I thrust my cock in and out of her mouth as he got a little more rough with his fingers bringing her closer and closer to orgasm. While I fucked her face I was using my hands and mouth to play with her nipples, while he was continuing to please her pussy and kiss her thighs. Her eyes rolled into the back of her head and she started shaking and screaming, her entire body pulsating, squirming, feeling the sensation that can only come from an extra pair of hands. Her orgasm felt like it lasted forever, at least twice as long as I'd ever seen her go before. She took my cock out of her mouth and just laid there spread out, clit dripping with wetness and nipples rock hard, taking in what had just happened to her. But of course she wasn't done yet… "You want to get fucked now?" I asked her. "More than anything," Sarah replied. "Who would you like first, me or him?" She looked at Eric and said "put a condom on, you're first." Sarah and I have been together for almost 4 years, and sexually exclusive for three and a half. We soft swapped with another couple before this (no sex), but nothing compares to the moment when you watch another guys' cock slide into your GF's pussy, seeing the look on her face that she gets when she's all filled up from another person. He started out slowly, but Sarah wasn't having any of it. "FUCK ME" she yelled. "FUCK ME LIKE A WHORE." I couldn't do anything but just sit and watch, watch his cock slide in and out of her and watch her with the stupidest, giddiest smile on her face feeling like she was a queen or something. She was like my own personal porn star, and I was laying there watching her get fucked from only a few feet away. Now when Sarah and I are together we can have some pretty rough sex, and it didn't sound like this guy was able to fuck her as hard as she wanted. "FUCK ME HARDER" she kept on yelling. "I NEED IT." He eventually realized that would have some better leverage fucking her doggy style, so he pulled her up on her hands and knees and started pounding her from behind. "Wow, that ass is fantastic," he said to me. Seeing another guy lusting over my girlfriend like that only made me feel awesome, like I had the sexiest girl in the world, not jealous at all. I started kissing her passionately and then she put my cock back in her mouth and just let the motion of him fucking her move her head enough to stimulate me. "That's the hottest thing I've ever seen," Eric said to me. Eric came after about 10 minutes, but hadn't made her cum again yet, leaving her begging for more from me. He got up and went to the bathroom to go clean up, and I finally got to fuck her after one of the most intense buildups I've ever had. First I licked up all the sopping wetness from her pussy, then I entered her and pretty quickly started fucking her hard. "YES" she yelled "YES!" "YOUR COCK FEELS SO GOOD." Eric must have heard because he was back in the bedroom pretty quickly, just watching at first. "You ever watched two people having sex before?" I asked him. "Never. I had no idea it would be this hot." Eric just laid there on the bed and watched us go at it, her getting even more pleasure because I have experience pushing her buttons. I was on my knees fucking her while she was laying down on her back, and we were both watching her tits jiggle back and forth with every thrust. She grabbed Eric's cock and started sucking it more, and even though he had just came he got rock hard again very, very quickly. I could tell that she was getting close to another orgasm so I increased the pace a little bit and took in the sounds of her moaning with her mouth full of a cock. I pounded her, harder and harder, and soon was about to come myself. Sarah took his cock out of her mouth, started convulsing and moaning so loud the neighbors probably woke up, and the feeling of her vagina contracting on my dick put me over the edge as well. Sarah and I came simultaneously, ending up unable to move in a big pile of pleasure on the bed. We took a break for about 45 minutes and ended up doing it all over again afterwards, and he didn't end up leaving our place until 1:30 in the morning. There was no jealousy, no hurt feelings, only 2 awesome guys teaming up to give a girl the night of her life. Eric was friendly, a good sharer, and did everything he could to respect our relationship. I never thought watching my GF get fucked by another man would be such a huge turn-on, but hey, you learn something new every day.

Yeah, I feel like the pressure situation of only 1 other couple coming to your place would be too much for a first-time encounter. Me and my lady are new to this as well, and we've enjoyed ourselves at a club a couple of times and are going to our first house party tonight. The first time we went to the club there wasn't any couples we really dug, so we just played together in the group room and enjoyed some light touching from others. The second time we met a couple we "clicked" with, and ended up in the situation it sounds like you wanted--a pile of 4, with lots of action going on between everyone. We loved it! In those environments (club, larger party) there is definitely less pressure due to there being more people and more options. If you don't want to play or aren't "feeling" any of the other couples there, nobody is going to feel awkward or have hurt feelings if you decide to just chill and be with your own partner. In the situation you described, I feel like there's no easy way out. Can more experienced people jump in here? What happens when you have only one couple over and aren't feeling it?

Can we have details?? I think a club is a better place for a first swinging experience, much less pressure. Inviting another couple you've never met over to your house late without any time for dinner or build-up and having it be your first time just sounds like a recipe for disaster if you ask me. But now I'm curious! Mind sharing?

Thanks for the advice everyone! We are both a little nervous but really excited! I don't think we expected to move so quickly into the lifestyle but we are talking about it and making sure we are both comfortable every step of the way and I think this party will be a good chance to continue our journey! Much love

Hi lovely people Me and my girlfriend have been to an on-premise club a couple of times, dipped our toes into the lifestyle, and are loving it so far. First time we went, we did some same room play with another couple but only a little touching between the couples. Last weekend, though, we decided to go back and we found a couple close to our age (early 20's) who we really liked!! We ended up doing a soft-swap foursome which was a TON of fun for us. My girl was really into the female half of the other couple and I was in heaven watching my lady make out with the other female and suck on her tits while I went down on her. Great times were had by all. After our encounter we got the other couple's phone number and they invited us to a house party at their place on Friday. We really liked them so we are definitely going to go, but that's where you come in, Swingers Board. How can I expect the atmosphere to differ between a club and a house party? Will there still be as much of an opportunity for group stuff? Me and my lady aren't really interested in going off separately, at least for now we only want to play together. I would assume that because they invited us they would be down to reprise our encounter at the club? I'm mostly just asking what to expect. At the club it seemed like super relaxed, get naked, play, very low inhibitions all around. At someone's house it feels like it might be a bit different moving from social party stuff to playtime? How does that work? Please enlighten me

Yeah, I copy+pasted what I wrote to here and Reddit. I figure its safe to talk about the club here amongst lifestyle people...the club is New Horizons if anyone is curious. I think sharing will come in time. The little taste of touching definitely wet my gf's appetite, but we didn't find a couple that we really wanted to get that intimate with. The couple that we played with on the bed had an incredibly sexy woman that both of us clicked with, but my gf wasn't too big on her husband. Finding a 4-way chemistry is hard, and neither of us are comfortable with playing separately right now. We're going to become members of the club (last night was a first-time-guest night where you could come w/o joining), and definitely go back! And yes, we looove putting on a show. We were definitely the youngest people there (23), so we got a lot of looks from everyone and that turns us both on like none other.

When we found out that one of the best on-premise swing clubs in the country was right in our backyard, it really didn't take any convincing to get her to go with me. We left about 7:30 last night, made the drive about 20 minutes and took the plunge into the "lifestyle" as people call it. I'm witholding the name of the club because we signed a confidentiality agreement, but it was a gigantic 25,000 square foot lodge type facility with multiple indoor and outdoor hot tubs, fitness-club like bathrooms, a dance floor with a band and DJ, and of course plenty of space to play. First we took a tour, and learned the rules, among the most important being "no means no," which is strictly enforced. There were also no single males allowed in the play areas, you had to go up as a couple, and you weren't allowed to wear your "street clothes" in the upstairs play areas either, to ensure a more level playing field. Then we ate a delicious steak dinner while chatting with a nice couple who had been coming to the club for two years. Everyone was friendly, had advice for us about how to handle the club and was happy to see such young people there (we're both 23, and were definitely the youngest people at the place). Then, the fun began. We started out by getting naked and hot tubbing for a while, kissing passionately while the warm water bubbled around us. Some people walking by watched us for a little while, and it was a turn on for both of us to be watched like that. Soon, another couple joined us in the hot tub and wasted no time before going at it. My GF was in my lap, his GF was in his lap and both couple were passionately making out. At this point we were both so turned on that we had to do something about it. Since hot tub sex isn't really that fun, we decided to take a trip up into the play area to watch some action and get it on ourselves. Going up into the play area was like walking into a 360-degree porno, the upstairs area was a large circular room that was separated out into lots of different areas. Some cubbies with curtains that you can leave open or closed with individual couples getting it on, some "pits" that had various orgy-type situations going on in them, and a variety of themed rooms with people scattered about. It was sensory overload--moans and screams and the sounds of sex floated all around the room, all around us were people of all shapes, sizes and ages getting it on. We had been concerned that this place would be a bunch of old people, but that wasn't the case. While there were definitely some older people there, a majority of the people in the play areas were young, attractive and extremely sexy. Me and the GF found an area to get started that had a bunch of beds on different height levels, we grabbed a bed that was high enough up so that you could see the other action but not too high that other people couldn't see you. We were already naked at this point and when I put my hand on her pussy it was sopping wet already. She was so turned on by all the sights and sounds that she begged me to fuck her as hard as I could. After minimal foreplay we were going at it and she was screaming so loud that passers-by stopped and watched the action. I was so incredibly turned on by the whole situation, being watched, watching others at the same time, that I blew fairly quickly the first time. Not a problem, we just went back to foreplay a little bit more, I ate her out and she then ravaged me with some spanking and biting. As a couple walked by while she was spanking and chewing on me, they asked me "doesn't that hurt?" I responded "It feels amazing." "Oh, so you like being a chew toy. Sexy" It was extremely hot (temperature wise) in the area that we were, so we decided to cool off a little bit before round 2. We took a cool shower, got a few snacks and some water, and quickly went back upstairs wanting more. As we were making the rounds trying to find a suitable place to begin, we noticed that the couple we ate dinner with was playing on a huge bed in a blacklit room. They seemed very happy to see us and asked us to join them on the bed. What happened after was a highlight of the night--while me and my lady had agreed that we didn't want to do anything overtly sexual with other people for our first time, touching was OK. We shared a gigantic bed with this other couple and sucked and fucked right alongside them. My GF gave me a blowjob while I watched him eat her out, and while I was sitting up fucking my gf while she was laying down, the other couple started grabbing her boobs as they jiggled. They were caressing her slowly while I fucked her as hard as I could, and the look on her face was pure bliss. She moaned so loudly that I'm sure the whole place could hear and began convulsing and having what seemed to me like one of the most powerful orgasms she's ever had. After that the other couple was so turned on that they started fucking doggy style and since we were a bit exhausted at that point we just laid there naked on the bed enjoying the show. At this point we quickly realized that it was getting really late, but we really didn't want to leave. We went downstairs and got some snacks and chatted with a few people, got in the hottub for a while longer and met a few other couples, and then decided to head upstairs with them. We found another room were the floor was all one gigantic pillow, that was also right in the middle of the play area for everyone to see. I laid my gf down on the floor and started eating her out while the other couple (a little old for our tastes) seemingly found a single woman to join them in a threesome. As I had my face buried in her the man next to me was getting a blowjob from two women at once. They started fucking and we started fucking again right next to them, and as I blew yet another load and collapsed on the pillow floor, we looked at them and said "we'll be back soon." What a night. It sticks out how incredibly friendly and open everyone was and how comfortable I felt not wearing any clothes in the environment. We can't wait to go back!