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experienced

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  • Birthday 03/06/1970

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  1. Yup. The fact that you're willing to go there so that your wife has fun is really sweet....but don't take one for the team.
  2. I'm not one to judge....but I'd probably steer clear of them. That's just me!
  3. I'm a Hitachi magic wand fan myself...I got one about 10 years ago and just had to replace it last year. I NEVER have to worry about killing the battery...it just keeps going and going and going...just like me! BTW- I've used it with several girlfriends...and now they all have them too. Maybe I should be a spokesperson.
  4. It is so strange..because if I were to label us..I'd say we're swingers first, in a relationship with another couple (so poly second).....although I do hate labels. They're just so defining- and for me, what we're doing HAS no label. We're just having fun!
  5. Yes. Exactly. Its not like you have a finite supply of love. My husband and I have been swinging for 15 years together and found a couple that we consider our boyfriend and girlfriend...and they happen to be married to each other. The first night we hung out with them we all knew we had something special with them. We've been with them for a year now..we still swing but we do it all together. I go out on dates with my boyfriend.....my husband takes salsa lessons with his girlfriend. So far its all working for us. I love my husband more than life itself. I love my boyfriend but its a different love. I have 17 years with my husband and a family...boyfriend is important and special to me but its not the same by any means. Had someone said to me a few years ago we (husband and I) would be involved with another couple I would have told them no f'n way. This is not something we ever looked for...and to be honest I'd probably would have advised people in the lifestyle not to do it....but now my mindset has changed a bit. I do feel like we have to explain ourselves to other lifestyle friends (they all thought we're nuts) but they all hang out with us and have fun so they can see that clearly it IS working for us. How long will it last? That's a whole 'nother question.LOL
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