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sparkey

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About sparkey

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 08/24/1974

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    Male with GF
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    Indianapolis
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  1. So my girlfriend of 2.5 years tells me yesterday that she cheated on me. We have a open relationship as long as we both are there and both approve of the other people. We were talking to a couple that works for me and that we were friends with about the 4 of us all hooking up one evening. There was a lot of flirting between the guy and my girlfriend & me & the other girl which I was fine with. She tells me that 7+ months ago she meet this guy in a parking lot and watched him masturbate then let him finish in her mouth. She swears that that is all that happened and he says the same thing. She says they met to discuss plans for us to all hook up, they didn't meet to do what they did it just "happened" and he took it to far and she couldn't say no. She says she has low self-esteem issues and just made a bad choice. A month after this incident occurred we did hook up with this couple and had a great time. The next day the guy's girlfriend finds out about their parking lot incident and confronts my girlfriend about it. The 3 of them decide to not tell me because they thought I'd fire them & break up with my girlfriend. Fast forward 6 months to yesterday when during a heated argument she tells me about what happened between her and the guy in the parking lot. She says the guilt was killing her and she had to tell me no matter the consequences. I was pretty mad and shocked to say the least. I treat her like gold. I do anything for her and give her whatever she wants. I made her call the guy, my so called friend, and tell him that I know what happened. He and I talk and I told him we were through being friends. She is totally sorry, has cried for the last 24 hours about it. She volunteered to move out and said she would understand if I hated her and never wanted to see her again. I love her and it was a minor indiscretion but an indiscretion nonetheless. I feel pretty betrayed. Especially since a month after the incident we all got together and they messed around right next to me. I don't want to leave her but I need to hear what people think. How do I work past it? Why did they have to sneak off and do it when myself and his girlfriend obviously would let it happen a month later?
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