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ready4fun48 last won the day on April 19 2013

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About ready4fun48

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  • Birthday 09/26/1956

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    Atlanta, Georgia
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  1. We agree that Hedo would be a great place to start in the Caribbean. It is great for an all over tan as well as lifestyle opportunities. We too are in our 60s and plan to go during their Sexy Silvers week, which is May 4 to 11, 2024. There will be over 100 couples in our age range and the activities/entertainment is more focused on that group. Hedo also offers Sexy Silvers weeks with smaller turnouts in February and October. We book through Topless Travel, which is affiliated with the SLS lifestyle website. The Sexy Silvers week at Hedo is always awesome.
  2. My wife is not into receiving oral either. She does it occasionally, including during swinging encounters with guys or girls, but rarely orgasms. She is quickly ready to move to giving oral or fucking. She loves sex, but that is just not her preferred method.
  3. We were just at Paradise Lakes for 3 nights and really enjoyed our visit. We stayed in a condo in the PL community but outside of the club area. We paid day fees each day to visit the club and sun by the pools. They had a large pool, which was a bit chilly, a heated conversation pool, hot tub, and two volleyball pools. The club also has a bar, a restaurant, spa area, and a night club that has weekend dances. There is also a playroom behind the bar which is open at various times on the weekends. Outside of the club there were pickleball courts that were actively used in the morning. We thought PL had a fun, laid back vibe. Easy to meet people at the conversation pool, bar, and nightclub. Everyone was friendly and many were snowbirds, so people were from all over. The place is considerably smaller than nearby Caliente and guests are a bit older, both of which are fine with us. It is truly clothing optional, with people nude or various coverups all around the community. Nearly everyone was nude at the pool, with plenty of lounging areas including some with umbrellas. Overall we liked the resort and will be back.
  4. The initial physical characteristic we are most attracted to are couples who smile a lot and seem to be happy and positive. After all, the lifestyle is about having fun. Hopefully this will lead to conversations where we look for people with good communication skills and broad interests about a variety of topics. This is not really different from new vanilla friends, except we look for nonjudgmental lifestyle friends where we all have the freedom to open up to other topics (like sex). During those conversations we appreciate everyone being fully engaged in discussions and always showing respect for their partner. When conversations flow relatively seamlessly, our attraction is enhanced. The final stage of making a great connection for us is harder to describe because it involves the intangible “chemistry” of a four way relationship. It is how everyone’s personalities mesh. It is something you know when it’s there and hopefully everyone is on the same page. For us, good connections are not easy, but when they happen it can be really nice.
  5. The pandemic did not really affect our clothing preferences, although the seasons definitely do. Being nude is just more comfortable and fun when it is hot out. We are fortunate to have a private backyard area. Staying nude with like minded friends is great, but we are always aware of everyone’s comfort level.
  6. We went to Sun Aura for the first time last Labor Day weekend. We had a good, but not great, time. The facilities were okay, but definitely past their prime. Sun Aura has a long and interesting history and was the primo nudist destination of the '70's. The pool was very big and center of daytime activity. Water was clean and refreshing, with plenty of lounge chairs around. Weather was in the mid 90's and we heard the pool can be pretty cold when temperatures are more normal. The beach was non-existent, just dirty sand around a dirty pond that no one used. We liked the music and dancing at the dances. The clubhouse was small for the number of attendees, although it might be better at a non-holiday weekend. Be sure to reserve a seat in advance for the dances. Most people, including us, did their own cooking, but there was a grill with limited menu available. Campsites were a bit haphazard and only a few that were available to nonmembers had utilities. But the camping was cheap, I believe under $10 a night. The restroom facilities were substandard in our opinion. We did not find any playrooms, but many people congregated in the "Dunes" area at the back of the property for an informal meet and greet in the evenings. The dunes are a loooong walk from the other facilities. Many members have golf carts, so try to hitch a ride if you go. We were surprised by the number of golf carts, but the place is huge. We were glad to have our bicycles. The biggest issue we had was that there were many members and relatively few overnight nonmembers. Even though most folks seemed nice, it was hard as a newcomer to get to know other folks. But if you are coming with a group, that should not be a problem. If we went back, it would be more fun to go with other couples. You should have a fun time, especially if the weather cooperates. Please let us know if you have any other questions.
  7. She definitely calls the shots with playmates and playing. I suppose I have veto power, but never had reason to use it because she has better judgement than me in those areas. She is way better with intuitive insights and I am happy to have her take the lead.
  8. We would definitely be happy without swinging. We have been married far longer than in the LS and have been fortunate to always be happy together. So far our LS activities have enhanced that relationship. But if that was to change for either of us, swinging would stop and we would still be happy. Regarding FL's which-comes-first question, a strong relationship with mutual trust and respect was required for us to get into this. That view seems pretty common here, but not as predominant among all the folks we have met through other LS related activities. That only confirms that there are a variety of motivations for people becoming swingers.
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