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JsWife last won the day on March 23 2011

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  • Birthday 04/19/1971

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  1. Hubby and I are new in the LS, and although I was the one to suggest it and we communicated thoroughly and openly, I still dealt with these issues that Slevin refers to. Hubby supported me and encouraged me; telling me he didn't see me or anything we were doing as "bad". But in the beginning, I had a very difficult time dealing with "what does this make me?" afterwards due to my ingrain upbringing, moral issues, and religious convictions. It took A LOT more talking between us afterwards because of my confusion of enjoying it so much and the whole guilt/shame aspects for enjoying it. Like others have said here, the line between fantasy and reality is definitely one that needs to be well looked at before AND after delving in the LS...even if only visiting a club for the first time. There is no point where communication should stop and it should open even more-so after you get your toes wet. If your wife decides to come here to the board, I will be happy to talk to her from a woman's perspective and help if I can. Good luck to you both!
  2. Thanks for all the comments and advice! I feel so much more comfortable now in dealing with that time of the month in this LS.
  3. Never heard this before, but recently Hubby and I have decided not to wear our wedding rings unless it's for work/professional reasons (going to the doctor, being around our "vanilla friends", etc). Not wearing our wedding rings gives us a sense of dating and also allows for some free-er feeling of flirting with others and even though we are together when we don't wear them, the flirting is reciprocated because they aren't immediately put off by the "rings". Even when there's absolutely no flirting going on with others, it's still a sense of our days of "dating" and so the mindset is a little more "fun". Call it odd if you will, but we all have to find the little things that work for us and get our motors revving.
  4. We keep a small bag in the car of essentials when meeting with someone: mouthwash baby wipes tums (don't want to have gassy or upset stomachs) lube Rize 2 pills advil (for any aches, pains, or headaches that may come on to interrupt things....haven't had to use them yet lol)
  5. My hubby has been using the term "broken" for that time of the month for our entire marriage even though we're new at this. It's funny to me that it's obviously not a commonly used term lol. Thank you everyone for your comments and input.
  6. Thanks Learning. I actually track my cycle on an i-Phone app by Fertility Friend and I wasn't supposed to start until Monday. I guess I had too much of a good thing though this month. Oh well, it will be worth the wait I know.
  7. As you know, hubby and I have been enjoying some MFM fun and had a playdate scheduled tonight. Unfortunately, I've had to cancel because "mother nature" decided to call three days early!! I'm not one to usually have this happen. I am completely bummed....very, very upset because I was REALLY looking forward to tonight. After all, we had two weeks of build up for this encounter. Anyway, for all you ladies that this has ever happened to, how do you cope with the disappointment and do you just learn to deal with it? I'm guessing this is because of the influx of all the hormones this month and having too much fun for the first time lol. But it sure burst my bubble tonight. Guess I'm just looking for some support from you ladies here (and guys too whom have to console their disappointed wives). Thanks!!
  8. I completely agree with this. Although we are so new to this LS, so that we haven't had the opportunity to even think about receiving or giving gifts other than drinks bought for me while out this past Friday, I would agree that the fact your hubby didn't tell you immediately may be a flag to be discussed to find out the reason behind his waiting to tell you. Hopefully, you two can continue to communicate this issue and get it worked out to an agreement before this behavior happens again...his or the other woman's.
  9. Think of sex as vanilla ice cream...it's ice cream so it's good in itself. But when you add some flavor and a little toppings, you get an ice cream sundae...similar to the variety or spice added to a sex life of those in this lifestyle.
  10. This is definitely the goal, but we are taking our time weeding through and setting up the meetings.
  11. I know we're new to this as we just made our profile Friday night, but we don't even have private pics posted and honestly, I don't plan to at this point. We are more interested in the person behind the nudity/crotch and it urks me to be receiving so much email with only crotch shots and then 10 private pics that the person opened for us....none being a nice G-rated head shot! I send them on their way, politely of course.
  12. Not sure why you couldn't find us Good Times. We checked our privacy settings and we're receiving email from other members. Can you try again? jnsfriends. Thanks!
  13. Wow, thanks again for the comments and advice. This is really some great thinking and discussion material for us.
  14. Thanks so much for you honesty and opinion. 20 years certainly does speak well and makes me wonder if I'm just being paranoid before we even start.
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