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Tina and Bob

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Tina and Bob last won the day on June 19 2021

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About Tina and Bob

  • Rank
    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 09/24/1972

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Bay area
  • Interests
    Bob enjoys golf and watching football. I enjoy reading a good book, doing my puzzles and shopping for deals.
  • Occupation
    medical assistant
  • Swinging Experience
    five years

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    Black's Beach,Spa Mountain, Terra Cotta, Living Waters and Desert Sun, both in Palm Springs, CA area

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  1. Hi all, Tina here, Bob and I have foolishly played unprotected but that was in the early years when Bob would want to play bareback and I also agreed as an accommodation. I would say it was only five times but in retrospect 5 times too many. After one spontaneous play session in Monterey CA with a group of 3 college guys in our hotel room I started getting paranoid and insisted that Bob and I get tested. For whatever reason I was a nervous wreck and thought the worst but it all turned out negative, but ever since then I insist Bob wear one as well as the males that I play with no exceptions! Tina and Bob
  2. At my boyfriends house in his bed. We had done some touching, him my bare ass as we would kiss and he had had me touch his penis on the outside. We had been dating for three months. One day it progressed and it was the first time for both, he came within ten seconds, and it did get better thank god.
  3. We've responded to this question before. Bob says it's totally my call but if not someone I know very well or first time, always condoms. I have had slips of lack of good judgement occassionally so I can't say it hasn't happened because it has, but that was a few ago at a swinger resort and things got pretty wild. Fortunately it was very high end event and nothing from an std occurred. We do both have regular partners we trust so those are the exceptions.
  4. If we are truly comfortable and know them well, yes for both of us.
  5. I was 16 when I started having sex. Nervous like crazy if I didn't get my period on time. My boyfriend at the time didn't use rubbers except for a few occasions and I wasn't on the pill or other forms of birth control other than pull it out when I thought I could be ovulating. Was very very lucky, had a few gf's that got knocked up and had to get abortions. Bob lost his virginity at 14 to an older girlfriend.
  6. I explored and enjoyed being with other women long before we started swinging. Bob and I started going to nudist resorts, beaches and clubs before I took the dive. I initially did it to satisfy him but quickly adjusted to the fact that I enjoyed it as well, after going through the initial emotional roller coaster. Tina and Bob
  7. I have but very selective. Bob prefers bareback but again we are very selective. People we are not highly confident about almost never, but it has happened and we count our lucky stars.
  8. All the advice is excellent. I also keep a sign-in and sign-out book, first names only or even anonymous nicknames, but I also ask for comments about the experience and suggestions for improvement.
  9. Hello SH, so sorry I didn't see your post previously. You are correct about the swing activities being mostly Friday and Saturday in San Francisco. Would have recommended "Twist", check out their website. Good, safe,convenient location and decent hotels close by. There are also some swinger weekend get togethers, closest would be Berkeley,but first time Twist would have been cool. Gold Club, Gentlemen's Club on Harrison is a safe,classy (don't know if classy and strip clubs go together), is a very nice place to go for both males and females. Again sorry I didn't see your post but life has been crazy hectic lately so not alot of free time to go on this site. Warm Kisses, Tina
  10. I agree with all the good advice you've gotten here. However, it looks like you are looking for a one and done, but actually if you find the right guy, someone that understands it's sex with no strings attached that may be the best of both worlds. It beats trying to find decent guys who get the picture. I would suggest that you meet with all the men and explain the ground rules making it clear that any deviation from the rules means an immediate shut down of the arrangement. Obviously your wife needs to be fully involved with all decisions. You need to decide if she only plays when you are present and participative or if you will just participate as a voyeur. I would recommend all contact go through you, that you meet at places other than close to your home or work and that no initial personal information be exchanged until everyone is totally comfortable. Good luck to both of you.
  11. No doubt there will be a certain amount of angst, trepidation and all sorts of emotional insecurities. I was and still don't consider myself sexually promiscuous. I've really always been a one man's girl. Bob and I are very secure with our relationship and I am totally in love with him and he tells me, and I believe him, that he is totally in love with me. I have learned to enjoy sex as sex and love making as love making; a big distinction, but sometimes we just like to fuck! I am willing to give my body but my heart belongs to Bob. I believe we could both give it up in a New York second, Bob probably three NY seconds, but you only live once and we've decided we want to have no regrets. Just make sure you can both handle the emotional roller coaster, but it does get easier. Good luck!
  12. My first reaction was " using company computer for chatting is a very bad idea" as some of you have already pointed out, not to mention that she should be doing work related business and not personal stuff. Employers are not very tolerant of these activities and getting called on it would be very embarrassing to say the least. Bob and I both chat but we do not exchange any personal contact info until we have cleared it with each other and then we are totally open and honest, nothing is ever hidden. I don't make a distinction between single or non single, either you trust her or you don't. Personally it wouldn't matter to me if she was being deceitful with a guy who was single or attached, same difference as far as I am concerned. Tell her why it upsets you but that you still trust her to do the right thing. Good luck.
  13. Nothing really new to add, I think you've already gotten great advice. If you have the time and can afford it take a little vacation away from familiar surroundings. go somewhere where you are not likely to run into anyone you know and then go out with your husband to a nice club, possibly a little dancing and dress provocative for him. Maybe a nice short dress and skip the underwear. Even just wearing a nice short jean skirt and a cotton tee with no bra for an afternoon on the town is very sexy and I guarantee your husband will get turned on by all the attention you will get. Just relax and be comfortable doing sexy play things for yourselves and let things evolve naturally.
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