indylovers4u

Hi Julie, I am killing two birds with one stone here as we just got home and found your message wishing me a happy birthday in our email and suggesting I "swing" by the website and let you know what I was doing for my birthday. We spent the week in Jamaica at Hedo II, which ties into the post about where to vacation. We have been to Desire in Mexico and now have experienced Hedo. Between the two we may prefer Desire, but have enjoyed both. I think as far as swinging while you are there it really depends on the other people who happen to be there with you. Hedo is larger and has a nicer beach, but we found it didn't really get wild until after midnight in the hot tub, and there was no common play areas like they have at Desire. I had a great birthday celebrated with my husband in our birthday suits all day and we loved the sunshine and warmth we would not have experienced at home!:kissface:

what are you looking for?

We have been in the lifestyle for a year and a half now, and have met some great people along the way. My husband and I were high school sweethearts and each others "first". We began swinging after being married and monogamous for 26 years. We have not had any issues with jealousy, although we were in a relationship with another couple for about 6 months (it was their first venture in swinging) who both had issues (at different times) with jealousy. For us, it has heightened our sex lives tremendously. We are excited by the anticipation of our swing dates, as well as recounting the experience afterwards. We prefer full swap same room because we both find it very hot to see our partner pleasing and being pleased by another. We also enjoy the interaction of all 4 people when everyone "clicks".