Am there and having problems. I was not looking for anything but sex, but more developed. What to do about it is a problem. It's easy to say break it off and forget it and I've tried that without sucess. Can you love two women at the same time? I did not think so but now I do. I love my wife deeply and we have a wonderful marriage but there is a different love that I feel for the other woman. She fills the voids that I was not aware I had before. We want no one to be hurt by this and both our partners think we are not communicating with each other any more. They both saw that we had feelings for each other and we tried to end the relationship. We have not accomplished that ending. My wife was soured on swinging by the feelings and says she will never do it again. I'm unsure that I want to honor that. I think that some times even when we don't set out to do so , feelings develope. After all, sex is highly emotional. As for what you should do, I think that if the feelings have not yet developed into love, break it off. If I knew what to do once the feelings developed into love, I would have the answer to my problem. Let me know what happens in your case. Good luck!
