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UPDATE!! So we talked about going to that adult club. She was game for it last night. She gets dressed up in a cute dress and heels and is sporting NO bra and panties. We go out to kill time untill the club opens. We TALKED a lot, about feelings , being with someone else, and different situations and how they would make us feel. Well, we left this store and start driving over to the club, now all of a sudden she is quiet. Her nerves started to kick in. We get there and this place is in a bad area and looks really rough on the outside, there were only about 10 cars outside and some of them looked real scary. So we pussed out and didn't pay the $40 to go in. We went home and had great sex instead. Like some recommended , a meet and greet seems safer. Now here is another question. I brought up a "what if". We meet a couple and that couples wife is up for soft play on me. My wife said go for it. I said what about you? She says I'll watch and masturbate.... Ok cool with me , but what if her hubby wants to play with you? She says "I wouldn't feel comfortable , idk" So here is my question. Basically wife is fine if I play and doesn't mind if she is present, but she might not be interested in playing w the other husband. It seems like our chances are slim to none of meeting anyone, or pissing couples off. Thoughts ? Thanks for listening Anthony

Sorry I haven't updated:blush: We have not yet made it to a club and I leave next tues for basic training. So maybe this weekend, but it might have to wait till I get back:( I will post updates when it happens though

Yes the club we were planning on going to has couples ONLY on Sat night. As for the what goes on inside, which I know is sex, but how intense is it? Is that all your going to hear or will it be a little more discretely? Will we be walking into a HUGE orgy or something of the like? Also is the lighting toned down like a strip club or can you REALLY see whats going on?

I've talked to her about it, a couple of times since I posted on here. She seems fine with it. Told her its a ADULT club, not strip club, BUT there will be other things going on. I said we can hang out and not participate in whats going on. If we don't like it we can leave. She said thats fine. Knowing her, once the nervousness wears off and she relaxes, we'll both have fun. My plan is to go for the highly sex charged environment that we'll be in. Who knows we may have sex there, or in the car out in the parking lot, or just wait till we get home and go at it. Kinda scary going into this, but exciting at the same time. Makes it easier knowing people will respect you when rules are laid down Thanks Everyone:)

I need serious advise on trying something new. Quick rundown, I'm 34, average. Wife is 37 average. Sex life is good, but past year or so as been INCREDIBLE. She has started to get into masturbation, toys and porn and really become open minded. Well, we have been talking about different fantasies and things. And one of hers is having people watch us go at it and mine is having same room sex with another couple. So I've been looking around on things of that nature and really don't know where to start or how to approach it. We DO NOT want sharing or swapping, just a highly charged sexual environment. Either at a club or house, prefer house BTW Anyhow, We are in St. Louis and I've looked at a couple of swinger sites and checked into the Colony Theater (some adult/couple only lounge), but like I said, don't know how to approach it. Same with the wife... do I just take her after we go out to dinner and the Hustler Store? If she is in the right mood she would be down. She mentioned strip clubs in the past, and we went, but they aren't couple friendly. So should I pursue this or just drop it? I leave for basic training in Jan and would like for us to experience this before I leave. Thanks.