Violet75

Sorry it has been so long since I have been on, with 4 kids and Hubby job hunting, we have been SO busy. The comment above is the one that resonated with me the most. I can't believe that something so obvious had not occurred to me, especially since this was the way I had felt about sex before I met hubby. While we were dating and I would try to explain this to him, the fact that I could have fun having sex without emotional attachment, he acted as if he didn't understand that. I think that's where my concern lies; I understand and have practiced fucking without love. I know how to put on the act and get into the zone so to speak. I dont know if he does. We are still discussing and exploring though. I think we just need to start slow. I was so impressed with the responses I got here. I think I underestimated the level of intellect I would find here, and I apologize for that. Everyone was very mature and respectful. Not at all like what I used to encounter years ago when I was out and about. Thank you so much for that.

Hi, wife narrating here. I'm 35, hubby is 31. We have been together 3 years. I'm not sure if what we have been talking about and exploring would really be considered swinging. Hubby has slowly been opening up to me about fantasies about watching me with other women and men. In my life before hubby, I was very sexually open. He knew this when we met, but acted as though none of that interested him. I had a sort of sexual awakening when I met my husband and lost interest in all the wilder things I had been doing. After we had been together for about a year and a half, my husband confessed to me that he was a little envious that I had experienced so many different sexual things and he had only done the basic vanilla stuff with his first wife. He was envious of me, and of the people I had been with, that they had shared something with me that he hadn't. Gradually he has expressed interest and desire in experimenting with role play, and with watching me with another woman. Then he finally told me that he has fantasized about seeing me with another man. I stepped away from this life when I met him because he satisfies me completely. I don't need anything more than what he gives me. I'm cautious because when we first met he said that stuff didn't interest him at all. So here we are, to learn more about what we may be getting ourselves into and if we can handle it.