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killerbee1969

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About killerbee1969

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  • Birthday 07/21/1969

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    Florida
  1. Thank you for your 2 1/2 cents...it was very well thought understanding of my concerns. I really don't know where this could lead me, but my wife told me how she wanted to visit a club, where we can see other couples have sex. She feels it would be very hot, and she asked me if I would fine it hot too. I of course said yes, because I truly feel this would enhance our sexual experience...but I'm no sure if I want more than just watching. She is about to turn 35, and I feel she is feeling the urge for more sex...we have been going at it 3 times per week now, 3rd week straight. I wish there was I was I can train my perception to disconnect possible emotions, when it came to not involving sex with love. I somehow keep the two connected, and feel I'm closer to my wife, at the moment we are having sex.
  2. Ok I'm sorry I keep starting new threads, but I seem to be lacking the status to reply or post. Or maybe it's just me, and my level of using an online forum, versus the national average, is low. I've been reaching out and asking some of you seasoned veterans in the lifestyle, if anyone thought based on my SO, and her sexual expressions, if she had the possibility to want swinging. I'm mostly responsible for everyone's response because I've lacked the details, and again, my fault, I usually don't write anything forum-ish. I'm here asking about certain things, and always getting the answer, "you need to talk to her, explain all this to her," or,"your relationship seems like it is having problems from what i'm reading.' I feel I'm getting a very basic reply from everyone, and a cautious one at that..... My marriage is very strong....extremely strong....the caring, respect, love, being only a few of the many are present every living moment. The sex is by far very amazing...not as often as before, but still very amazing... I feel very happy when I see my wife enjoy sex, and it turns me on too....so I pose these questions from my prior post, with everyone to understand... I'm here to feel out the experience of the lifestyle, and to make my judgement if it is something for me, and if so, then approach my wife with my conclusion. I'm not looking to screw around with random women, because if that's what I wanted, I would have just done that in itself. I'm looking to the sexual experience even more, with the person i love very much. And I'm very aware from reading the experience of others that if a couple has a strong relationship, it usually enhances the bedroom experience.
  3. neither have the urge, nor the need to experience it again????? Hey Everyone, I really appreciate you input so far in the forum. I'm trying to figure out if my wife has any hidden urges to be a swinger, now that we have been married for 10 years, with two children. These are the facts.... In her early years...19-22 she had several bi-sexual orgies, worked full-time as a phone sex actress, and was a high priced escort for a few dates. She mentioned to me once in conversation how she probably would have been a swinger, if she was not married to me. My thoughts: I presume she enjoyed sex very much, until she gained about 50 lbs, after the baby was born. She is about 150 now, and Latina (Cuban). With all the sexually charged events in her life, I'm feeling that she might be missing some of her orgy days with women. Can a person be bi-sexual, and not take part in any bi-sexual activity for over 10 years? She also enjoys watching porn MMF, and gets hotter during sex when I talk dirty about it. Are these underlying experiences that may lead to hidden urges of wanting more sex in life...and for couples, is that more sex equal some sort of swinger? I ask this from all of you, because you all seem very fine tuned with your emotions intertwined with sex. And from my last post, everyone seemed very understanding and gentle in their response to a total stranger...thank you.
  4. Hello Everyone, I'm sorry in advance if I bore you, because I'm strictly here for advise from experienced people. I'm hoping someone has come across my feelings and understanding. First of all, I'm a 40 year old married man with my wife being 35. We currently have two children, and planning for two more in the next year or so. I've been with my wife for 10 years, and when we first started dating, she explained to me that she was bi-sexual. I was falling in love with her, and she was with me, so that never become an issue. She told me that regardless of being bi-sexual, her understanding of our love was first, and she always enjoyed making love with me over being with a woman. Well, through the years I've always suspected that maybe she did do something with me or a man...because of course, her sex drive has taken a serious drop through the years. I've stayed with a very hungry sex drive, and she has been very flat through the years....even though it was amazing our first 2 years. This is where I need to know if I'm reading the signals on our marriage. There has been time when my wife and I talk dirty, more so while she has had a few too many, that she enjoys being with 2 men at a time, basically a fantasy of it. She has told me that if she wasn't married, that she probably would have gone to swinger clubs, or been a swinger....she said that once....but then said it would never happen while she was with me...she probably couldn't handle the jealousy, as I probably couldn't handle it too...I'm Latin/Italian...and I can see myself getting too loud with someone, if something goes on too fast...or not in my control. In spite of all this...I have several fantasies when I masturbate, of us maybe soft-swinging, and really getting turned on by her reaction, and visual stimulation. Is that normal?????? When my wife was 19 yrs old...she was a phone sex operator, almost became an escort, but claimed she didn't go through it, but did admit to fucking the owner of the escort service twice. And at 17, she had some very hot sex with older men, tied to the bed, and such. Geez...when i met her, our first week, she gave me the best blowjob of my life, where she seemed like a pro, and all... to top it all off...she watched some b movie about couples doing a switch. So am I just plain stupid here...and this is her telling me that she needs to try something new...or is it me making all this up in my head because i have feelings of it too.... I don't know how I would react....but I do get lots of enjoyment in seeing my wife...my lover, at full enjoyment when we have sex.... Please help me out here....and if so...how do I approach it? thanks
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