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mg4653

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About mg4653

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 08/23/1963

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Russellville, AL
  • Interests
    Both love to be outdoors hunting (him with gun, her with camera), fishing or just hiking around and searching for interesting things to add to their rustic decor or landscaping; m-woodworking & taxidermy; f-needlecrafts, reading & computer
  • Swinging Experience
    new as couple

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    mg4653
  1. I rarely wear them in everyday life. I never wore them back when going to a vanilla club. I certainly don't wear them to a swingers club or event!! LOL
  2. We discussed it for a month or perhaps even less before we began. Now the back story...... We had been dating only a short while when I moved in with him. We have the best communication I have EVER, EVER had in any relationship. (Heck, our first phone conversation was over 7 hours long...........AND neither of us wanted to hang up then!! LOL) Our sex life has been amazing since day one. We began discussing previous experiences, fantasies, etc. Though I had many fantasies about being with another woman I had always felt it was best left as a fantasy. For one thing, I could not seem to get past the trepidation over what it would be like to give oral to another female and the other was the fear I would be jealous, not only over her possibly being more physically attractive but what if some emotional attachment already existed between him and her and grew with the increased intimacy (as he would have to supply the other woman....I knew no one to approach). The more I thought about it, the less apprehensive I became about oral with another female. Then the perfect opportunity presented. He had a long term friend that he had already had NSA sex with multiple times. My feeling was that if there was an emotional attachment going to form, it would have already occurred before I was ever around. She and I formed a friendship quickly and easily. I trust him and I trust her. She has been bi since her teen years and has been part of multiple first experiences for other women. I felt she would be patient with me if necessary. OK......I will condense this somewhat now (as it is already lengthy). Had the fmf with him and her......explored my bi side and LOVED IT!! This led to the discussions about other fantasies that included swaps that neither of us had ever experienced (prior to me he had multi fmf exp). We are both jump-right-in kind of people, so in the past 6 weeks or so it has gone from discussion to fmf first for me, no longer calling myself bicurious but bi after that, searching for partners on the internet, local hotel party with soft swap, first full swap just 2 days ago. A whirlwind of FUN, FUN, FUN!!! and a young but strong relationship becoming ever stronger and more than before certainty that he is the partner in life I was meant to have, truly my "male half" as I described him to my daughter after our lengthy first phone convo. I AM THE LUCKIEST WOMAN ALIVE!! or as he says the wisest......because I was wise enough to go after what I want.....in going after him full force and giving my all to us and OUR happiness.
  3. I have to agree that pushy to me is someone that doesn't take "no" as an answer the first time. But just this past Friday night we encountered a type of pushy I hadn't considered. We were at a hotel party and were beginning to play with a female we had already had one experience with. She was there with a male that was not her usual partner but that she trusted. He came over and joined us. Because it was our first encounter I told him clearly what my limitations were. He continued to press what those were as if he had not understood or I had not been clear (I was very graphic and specific, doubt he could ACTUALLY have misunderstood.) Since he did not cross the lines I had drawn though, I had not gotten truly upset at that point. Then he began to press for us all to move from the sofa into the bedroom. He continued to press for this, so eventually we did so thinking we could all be more comfortable. My partner and I stepped to the side and were awaiting the other female to return from the bathroom. He joined the group that was already on the bed, which we did not think had been the intent, especially since the last we knew that group had already broken up and moved on. I proceeded to the other bathroom past the bed where he was with a third female. As I returned from the bathroom, he took me by the arm and pulled me down onto him for oral along with the third female. My partner came across the room and took me by my other arm and we left. Now this guy was not physically rough but he was very overbearing and a more "subtle" form of pushy than I had imagined being possible. This and another more pushy male in the group made this "near-newbie" couple realize that: a) Large groups we don't know well are not for us. b) Don't trust anyone else's judgement about whether or not someone is trustworthy.
  4. I now use oral as foreplay only with every man other than "G". There are certain things just for us as a couple and that is one of them. With "G".......I ALWAYS swallow....love it, love it, love it!!
  5. Well, 6x/wk was the best reply I could give on the poll. It is usually daily and often more than once per day on the weekends, so I tried to average it out........lol I am lucky to have found a man that enjoys me that much and can keep up!!
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