In high school, I was part of a really progressive church that had a lot of programming for youth, so in going to a lot of youth get-togethers (sleepovers, conferences, workshops) I started to notice lesbians and bi girls and thought their relationships were very interesting... Occasionally I'd find a couple whose interactions I really liked and they'd almost become a model for something I wanted to have. I got a lot of attention from some of the lesbians at my school and youth group, which of course I liked. Later, after having some pretty decent relationships with guys I realized that I liked being with both and how different the two types of relationships could be. Now, I really like to play with couples because I get both!