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hypnoticgreene

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About hypnoticgreene

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 01/18/1972

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    utah
  • Swinging Experience
    2 years currently
  1. all of your help and views is so very helpful. i am currently trying to get to the root of the issue and your points have helped. I am not one to let things lie or fester. So now i think that new boundaries need to be defined before we go forward. If anyone thinks differently please let me know. This is such a new situation for me i am open to all suggestions.
  2. "The text message from Mr. X, was it the first communication from him since the MFM? If so, did he address both of you in his message and thank you both for the wonderful time? Did Mr. X show his appreciation to your husband for sharing you with him? If not, this could be part of why your husband is unhappy right now." It was the second communication the first being to both of us. Mr. X did express gratitude and was very polite and respectful to us both. As a add on question........Where do i begin to go forward? He is wanting to still play with others but in my mind and experience of other couples who have issues, to put this aside and continue on is only going to lead to a bigger disaster later on and it might be one we cant come back from.
  3. "Did you discuss this possibility before? If not, you need to now. Find out why this bothered him. Then set the boundaries that you both are comfortable with and will agree to" We have discussed boundaries and put them in place a few years ago. But with that being said, maybe there needs to be different boundaries for MFM
  4. "Sounds like your husband had been encouraging you to do a MFM and you finally agreed. Is this correct? It was your husband's idea?" He did talk me into in the way that he helped me open up and release the issue i had from my upbringing about being with more than one man at any time, which is odd since i like toys and have never had a issue with multiple women. So I guess he gets credit. "You say the play went wonderful, did your husband feel the same way?" Yes we all enjoyed it, there wasn't anything uncomfortable about it at all. For almost three days afterward . we were having sex every time we had a chance. "What have you and your husband discussed thus far? What reasons has he given you for being jealous?" I tried to talk at length with him about the reasons for his feelings and his only answer was that he felt left out when mr. x sent me a message over messenger and not him instead. Which is weird because i don't share that same concern in return when it comes to the multiple females he chats with online, not even when its the females we have shared together. I am honestly really confused and at a loss. And hope that a different point of view will help me correct the problem so we can continue having a happy healthy sex life together.
  5. ok to start... We have been swinging for awhile but I(female) had never felt the desire for two males at once but with some talking and experimenting with toys I agreed this would be a new experience that I would enjoy. Long story short we met a nice couple that play both together and alone. and he was given permission to fulfill this new desire of mine and it went wonderful. but 3 days later Mr. X was online and we had a very generic 15 minute conversation which spiraled Mr. hypnoticgreene into a jealousy mind set. I would love to hear some advice on this so I can try and mend this before it gets ugly. as it is right now I have put the swinging on a back burner until we can find a way through this. He isn't happy about this and knows i have told him he may continue the lifestyle without me but i will not return to swinging until we can resolve this issue...... God I hope someone out there can shed a little light on this for sanity and my sex drives state.
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