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Peaceful Minded

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About Peaceful Minded

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 04/23/1967

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  • Relationship Status
    Single Female
  • Location
    Michigan
  1. Thank you all for your great responses; they do help me sort this all out. I was confused with it all because in every aspect they pursued me, so didn’t understand why I was then pushed aside. I talked to the couple today and found out this is their first swinging experience, contrary to what I was told. The wife half was brow beaten into the decision, so she had/has issues with the obvious. Regardless, I bowed out. Just going to chalk this up to I was lucky or unlucky enough to find the couple cracked eggs in the carton lol, it doesn’t mean the whole bunch is spoiled. If nothing else, I’ve learned some valuable lessons to use for the next time, it can only get better from here.
  2. Well thank you for the welcome. When I asked them about all this, their response was... "you're new so you don't understand but this is all normal for the lifestyle, sometimes we are just more into each other". My thought and question, then why am I there? I believe I will end it with them and look elsewhere. Now the question I have is, how do I pick a couple that I can be certain will involve me, or at least be honest about what they are searching for from me.
  3. Phew, thank you. Being new I was uncertain, but my spidey senses were seriously tingling lol. Validation is great feeling. Thanks again!
  4. When this couple approached me I had already started looking at profiles in another site for married couples looking for single/bi female. They really are the most naturally kind people you could ever find. I made certain they were both okay with me entering into the dynamics, had plenty of questions for them, which they answered. The problem is, the first interaction was so comfortable and natural. The second, not so much. Instead of me being a part of the action, I found I am expected to wait/watch until I am called in. This is only after several times of the husband asking her if she is "okay" and if I can join in. When I am invited in, he guides me to please her first without him involved, which I am totally fine with. Then, when I am to interact with him, I feel strangely aware I am just a mechanism for him to ejaculate. She will physically move me out of the way when I am interacting with him, not join in, but physically move me away. Again, he questions if she is "okay" and I am given the nod to join in when she replies yes. I'm getting wordy, sorry. But, is this natural and normal? I understand her hesitation, but I asked several times before meeting if they had done this, and their reply was several times and they are "pros" at it and it was actually her idea. I'm so confused!!
  5. Hello all. I am new to the lifestyle and wanted to be educated or perhaps more aware of the nuances of the lifestyle I recently became involved in. I have been having issues with the couple I am engaged with, and thought this site would help clear some things up. Be patient with me, I’m sure I’ll be asking a lot of questions from you lol, sorry!
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