For all of you experience swingers out there, I was wondering if you had any twinges of jealousy your first time out? If so, how did you handle it?
As I mentioned before, dh and I are discussing having a fmf and our conversations and my thoughts about it get me very much hot and bothered. However, my only concern is that it may be different in the flesh, so to speak. I really don't think it will be a huge problem, but just in case I do get a little something nagging at me, I would appreciate any suggestions on how to handle this. We've already discussed our code word if things get to be too much, but other than that, I really don't know. It's not like we want to get in the middle of something, one of us get uncomfortable and leave our playmate hanging, ya know? I've never really had a problem with jealousy or anything like that, but I've also never seen my husband having sex with another woman. But, again, the thought of watching him doing to her what he does to me and knowing how it's making her feel absolutely gets me going. We pretty much figure that any feelings that occur the first time will be less and less as we do it...that is, if we both enjoy it the first go 'round!
As always, any help and suggestions will be greatly appreciated!