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bunnyluvn

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About bunnyluvn

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 12/08/1979

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    married
  • Location
    austin
  • Interests
    martial arts, reading, gardening, just about anything outdoors, total nature lover!
  • Occupation
    self employed
  • Swinging Experience
    -5 yrs

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    bunnyluvn
  • SDC Username
    sprydo12
  • Favorite Club(s)
    allure
  1. No... a fun extracurricular activity is what we share in common. I'm self-employed & the way we know them is completely outside of work. They do not work w/ us or for us. I know better than to do that one! That's definately a cardinal rule that we do not mix business w/ pleasure, ever!
  2. thx to all others for the advice. does sound familiar, huh? ;-) well, i hope your situation works out, sounds like it could, but it's so true... it's better to let them make the first move. b/c if its something they really have thought through & want to do, i think it will eventually happen. the last thing we want to do is make an ass of ourselves, b/c then you can't take it back & the situation's just awkward. i wish i could tell them the truth, but discretion is the better part of valor in this situation i think. good luck with yours & i'll keep fantasizing about mine! ahhhhhhhh... i've been telling them that we wanted to invite them over but we've been in the middle of remodeling the house so its been a little too upside down to bring guests over. maybe soon when that's done i can & we could just hop in tub (w/ clothes on, etc.) watch some stuff on tv, see what happens. just see how comfortable they seem. hell if we're lucky, maybe swingtown will be back on! "Oooh... honey is this that show we heard about the other day?" how interesting... lets watch. any objections?? he he ;-)
  3. thx guys for your insight. just helps to have others thoughts & views as well. wouldnt want to lose the friendship. just putting feelers out there! ;-) i totally agree. if any moves are made, it will be for them to do.
  4. my hubby & i have this vanilla (im assuming) couple we've been friends with for a couple years now. of course my husband & i are swingers & have been for a couple years now. we like to go out often & have fun with swinger friends, sexual or not, we have awesome friends! anyway, we have always kept it pretty much to ourselves that we are swingers, but i think it's no mystery to our vanillas that we surely don't have a boring life & we like to go out alot. they know we like to do that & party, but of course no further details are given. anyway, this couple i'm talking about, the husband is pretty good friends with my husband and abit of a shy guy, but sweet, & his wife, too. i'm confused & a bit tormented on this issue. (we know each other outside of work, we wouldnt go there.) they go to church apparently, but the male asked my husband when they were alone one time about swinging b/c some guys they dropped off from a car ride brought it up in general when they were there. the male was quiet about it until they left & then he started asking my husband about swinging, in general i guess. my husband told him that basically they didnt know what the hell they were talking about. this guy sometimes acts a little smitten w/ me maybe? hes made comments to my husband that his wife has no insecurities with other women & my husband was like, "mine either, as matter of fact she'll ask me if the woman was cute!" he also has given me compliments saying i was a certain female celebrity. i heard him & my husband talking about how hot this celebrity was, etc. apparently he has a feeling maybe that we are a bit wild. he kids with me about partying & seems to try to strike up conversations about anything like he just wants a chance to talk to me. he's cool with his wife & i hanging out & going places together. we hang out in/outside of gym. he told me one time after i had done my workout,"hey, dont wear yourself out now. thats my job. in class i mean." & i've caught him looking @ me a few times. it's like we do this subtle flirting here & there. sometimes around & not around my hub. hes cool w/ it & doesnt mind. could he & his wife be thinking of exploring swinging? or am i a hopeful thinker? i would never just confess my naughty side to them, but i think maybe they are into us. one time we had to go out of town for a seminar & we had rooms @ the same hotel. when we got there that night, we went by their room to say hi & let them know wed made it there ok. my hubby told them well i guess were gonna go for a swim. my wife wants to swim in the pool. they said okay & acted like no big deal. my hub & i went to our room, put on our bathing suits & went to the pool. about 3 mins later here they come outside to get in the hottub that was also out there next to the pool. they got in. my husband migrated over there to them & shortly after i did too. we hung out in the hottub about 20-30 mins, basically talking the way we usually do. of course we kept it that way, not knowing if theyre cool like that or not, dont wanna make an ass out of yourself! i told my husband we need a tv out back by out hot tub @ home so we can watch the football games & fights. hub mentioned this to him in casual conversation & told me the male was like, "yeah, that's what im talkin' about!" so what do you guys think of this? i think their hot. am i wasting my time? i would never just come out & say what hub & i do, & would totally feel this thing out slowly & with no high hopes but im itching to know what the deal is with them. he didnt seem appalled or anything when my hub talked to him about the swinging subject. he even told my husband he thought 2 chicks kissing was hot. whats your thoughts?
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