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leoinheat

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  1. For me hair is a huge turn-off. Wife even hates it, so we both stay shaved. Also during sex when you are hairless the skin-on-skin contact is out of this world! We both vote NO HAIR!!!
  2. Thanks to everyone for all your advice! I agree that Swinging may have to be put on hold while we strengthen our relationship, if that's the way it goes. She moved out because she wanted to be with her family, she missed being able to come and go as she pleases (I NEVER told her she couldn't do anything). She missed not having to come home and be on a routine. She is a VERY VERY VERY change and freedom oriented individual. Most people have kind of a set daily routine, she resents those people. She HATES predictability. She takes a different way to work every other day just to avoid seeing the same scenery. I too am some what like this, but not to the degree she is. So, really she did not want to be one of those "typical house wives" types. Many people don't understand her (or us) because we are different from most couples in the way that we both kinda do our own thing. Marriage was just a bad idea for us, once we got married EVERYTHING changed. We started to take each other for granted, being around each other constantly started to drive us both insane. We have taken a few steps backwards as we are now just dating again. We see each other a couple times per week and when we do we really have a GREAT TIME in and out of the bedroom!!! Our relationship is starting to feel "new" again. So we plan on being faithful to each other, but not being married or "tied down." Does any of this make any sense???????????????? It does to us, but our families don't get it.
  3. I got a vas back in January and it's the best thing I ever did! I knew I never wanted the responsibility of bringing a life into this world, and we had waaaaaaay too many "close calls". I was a nervous wreck! But after it was done (only took about 15-20 minutes) I was back in the sack in about 7 days. It's different for everyone, but I felt ZERO pain. Only had a tiny bruise about the size of a small pencil eraser. Now I have no scar either and can go bareback all the time! It's a feeling of freedom. The downside--- Mentally it's a little different because as much as i don't want kids it was still kinda a mental rush to know you COULD impregnate her, don't know why but the thought of that danger felt kinda good.
  4. I'll keep this as short as possible (try anyways). First of all this board is AWESOME!!! Here's our situation: I am mid 30's, she is mid 20's. I am the only guy she has ever did ANYTHING with. We been together 4 years and she is now really craving her "freedom" to do what she wants, this has sent us into a separation, though we still talk and have sex, we're no longer living together etc etc. But not at all on "bad terms." I have suggested maybe we try Swinging, this would give her that open marriage that she desires,and it would also be fun to experience new things in the bedroom (or HOTEL room, hahaha!) I have never been the jealous type, however, I am afraid if we do this the other guy may be "better" and "bigger" and it may eventually end our marriage/relationship altogether because I will not be able to compare to the other guys. I guess I have some ego issues in that department but it's one of my fantasies to watch her with another man. I feel very confused and no matter how I weight this all out I never seem to really find a solution. She is TOTALLY down for trying this because she is craving some new "you know what." She is also VERY Bi-Curious and I have zero problems with that, none at all. I told her to do as many girls as she wants, but just the thought of another guy scares me...and also turns me on at the same time. Does this make ANY sense?????????/ I'm I alone here? Is this a normal feeling? Thanks for any advice, I could sure use it right now. PS- There are no children involved so that's no issue at all.
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