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  • Birthday 07/01/1978

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    West Coast
  • Swinging Experience
    I have no experience, my husband has some experience

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  1. No, I haven't done that yet. I'll have to give that a try. I could tell my husband was a little dissapointed when he was looking through profiles and wasn't finding any men who were listed as bi-curious or bi-sexual. Perhaps there are more out there, but they just don't want to admit it?
  2. My husband is finally home from his month long business trip and i've been showing him all the different swinger stuff that I found online. We were looking through profiles on SLS and one thing my husband noticed right away is that there are very few bi-sexual men. My husband is bi-sexual so we would want a bi couple. Almost all of the women had bi-sexual or bi-curious on their profile, but we didn't find any couples in our area where the man was listed as bi-sexual. Is this a common problem?
  3. I'm a newbie here so my opinion is probably not as important as others since I don't have any real experience to talk about. However, I have dealt with my husband's emotional affair with a co-worker so I do know what you're going through. If I were in your shoes, I would cut ties with this couple and move on. I know you've known them for a while, but I see lots of red flags concerning your wife and her attachment to this guy. It may be harmless now, but it just sounds like it could quickly take a turn in a bad direction. It sounds like their relationship is a bit on the rocky side, and I personally wouldn't want to deal with a couple going through all that drama. Good luck to you
  4. Okay i'm going to be brutally honest here and say that I absolutely hate giving head. In fact my hubby was ready to leave me after the first few years of our relationship because I refused to do it. This was obviously a big issue for him, and I have since changed my views and give it my best. I pretend to enjoy it for his sake. In our case my husband knows how I secretly feel about it so he knows that I dont really enjoy it. He is always very happy when I do it though because he knows i'm pretty much only doing it because I love him. If I felt like I didn't have to do it, then I wouldn't. Yes, I know i'm terrible I have told him for years that I would be thrilled if he found a girl who enjoyed giving head, so that I would feel less pressure to do it. In fact if we decide to give swinging a try, that's definitely on the top of my husband's priority list
  5. Actually this is what happened in our case and that's why we have decided to wait a while before actually getting involved in the lifestyle. We both brought it up (we started confessing our fantasies over the phone while my husband was on a business trip). Once I actually started looking into it and started looking through ads, my husband started to freak out. He said he never thought I would actually seriously look into it, and he was concerned over how excited I seemed to get started. Honestly if we don't ever end up getting involved with swinging, that's okay with me. Yes, I fantasize about it, but i'm not willing to risk my marriage over it. If he decides that it's not something he wants to do, then we wont do it. He's said the same to me.
  6. Well we haven't actually done anything yet, but if anything I think i'm the one more into it than my husband. I feel like i'm the one trying to convince him that it will be okay. Don't get me wrong, he also is extremely interested, and wants to do it too, but I think i'm the one that's been pushing it. So, no I do not feel coerced
  7. I wanted to reply to this because my husband is bi-sexual and has been since birth (his first sexual experience was with a male childhood friend of his when he was very young). I had been dating my hubby for about a year before he admitted to me that he was bi. I was totally shocked when he first told me because I never would've guessed in a million years. At first I wasn't sure how to handle the news. I wouldn't say that I was homophobic, but the thought of my man having sex or giving or receiving oral sex with another man was just very weird for me at first. The first week after he told me I had a roller coaster of emotions. Sometimes I would cry, sometimes I would be okay, sometimes I was just grossed out. Then I started realizing that his sexual preferences really didn't change who he was or how I felt about him. He is bi, but he has never had a romantic relationship with a man. His experiences with men are purely sexual, and then he has always had emotional relationships with women. Over the years I have become very comfortable with my husband being bi. In fact, I even find myself getting turned on by it and will admit that I've fantasized about him being with another man. My husband is nervous about being with a man in front of me. He said he worries that I will find him vulnerable or weak. It's something that we have talked about doing in the future (MFM threesome that is) with another bi-sexual man, but we just haven't taken the plunge. Maybe someday So, to answer your question directly, yes I have fantasized about my hubby being with another man. I don't know that I would say all women have this fantasy though. Before I met my hubby and he admitted his bi-sexuality to me I never even entertained the thought of my man being with another man.
  8. I (Mrs. JK), am totally new to swinging and have no experience whatsoever. I have had many fantasies, but no experience. Mr. JK has some experience, but I wouldn't call him a swinger (at least not yet, lol). He is bi and was the single man for many married couples. I got surprisingly turned on hearing about his experiences. My favorite story of his (and this occured several years ago before he met me) is one where he went over to an older married couple's house and when he got there the wife was already tied up on the bed with a blindfold on. Mr. JK and her husband took turns giving her oral pleasure, and having sex with her. My husband has a very generous sized penis and he said that she was definitely enjoying herself. She was begging him to cum in her, and her husband was getting really turned on watching him pound his wife and gave him permission to cum in his wife. So, he did cum in her while the husband watched. My husband also performed oral on the husband because Mr. JK is bi and enjoys that type of thing. After he came in her he said they continued to have sex with her for at least another hour, and took turns. When it was all done, she took off her blindfold so she could see who she had been screwing the whole time and she was very pleasantly surprised. This was an older, not very attractive couple, and Mr. JK is a very sexy, attractive man. He said it was a lot of fun and he remembers it fondly
  9. We've discussed it for a long time, but only recently got serious about it. We talked about it in the beginning of our relationship and I told him it was something that interested me, but that I wasn't sure I could actually go through with it. My husband has never pushed me, and always said "Maybe someday, if you ever decide you want too". I'm the one that has recently been pushing it. My husband is letting me sort of control everything because he has previous threesome experience in the past, and doesn't want me to feel pressured into anything. Lately he's been a little nervous about why i'm so into it, lol! He said he wasn't expecting me to get so excited about this.
  10. It just sort of came up between the two of us. My husband liked to talk dirty to me during sex, and he would start asking me about my fantasies while we were in the middle of things. Even though i've always had fantasies about seeing him with someone else, or myself being with someone else, I never said anything in fear that he would get jealous or mad. One night while we were in the middle of having sex, my husband asked me what I wanted. I took a deep breath and told him that my biggest turn on would be watching him go down on another woman and my hubby's face was like this He admitted that his fantasy is watching another guy fucking me, and we both just sort of laughed and said "So since this obviously is a huge turn on for both of us, then why don't we make it a reality?" We haven't done anything yet, but we talk about it all the time, and are seriously considering it.
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