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We hope not too.......... again we sorry about that it was just an unbelievable post from the other couple. We don't mind disagreements but we hate accusations !! after all we here to learn something and get advised from experienced couples and not to get into arguments and defend accusations. thanks for your comments , you been so helpful

Thanks for your comments............. she always goes on by herself to read posts, her favorite is swingers stories forum. thanks again, you all been so helpful

You are absolutely right .......... We didn't mean to get other members mad at us, but we couldn't believe what we read out of that couple post !!! it was unbelievable to read those accusation and comments he/she was making, and what upset us the most is he/she don't know us as to the fact I just started posting here and trying to get to know everyone on this board and get their advise .....not ACCUSATIONS !!! again sorry and thanks for your comments

thank you jdavisauto for your encouragement ps. we love your quote !! Stop laughing or I WILL put my clothes back on.

Thank you realcplub2 for your comments, she really doesn't need any password she can click and read any time. plus shes always here when I post or read or chat on line . lol.........she can also go to my business bank account on line and transfer funds to her personal account.

Is she actually "afraid" or just doesn't want to do it and that is the reason she is coming up with? Wanting to go to a club but having body image issues is one thing, but not wanting to go to a club and scrambling to come up with excuses is something all together different>>>>> TO arvcpl .......... If u can read past posts , and after I explained our situation , it seems like you can NOT comprehend what you read. Why would she scrambles to come up with excuses when she goes out on her own to meet the other (inappropriate people ) and blow them.......LOL Again you made the same mistake............ didn't you read that shes always here beside me when i write this? and didn't you read what i was saying about we both interested of swinging and that she did those (inappropriate people ) on her own and that she wanted to.......And it makes me happy to see her happy and satisfied !!.....if you really wanta make sure that she wants to do this and I'm not pressuring her why cant you ask for her phone number so u can talk to her yourself instead of judging people that you dont know nothing about !!! I thought everyone here is nice and great but I just see other wise, there has to be that one bad APPLE in the box. !!! Again same mistake.........WOW !! you can read people mind .......Psychic !! didn't you read that shes not ready to see me with other women YET ?? and that's why the single FEM profile !!! And the word PIMPING ........ I think its to big for you to use and inappropriate, and after 19 years with my wife I dont think I would be PIMPING her out!!! but if pimping is a popular word in your dictionary or swingers dictionary , then I'm sorry we dont need to swing any more !! Exactly what I said You didnt read it right !!!! How many times I have to say that we want to do that and shes really into it ...... Believe me I wont ask you to BUY it !!! because you are so judgemental without the facts !!!. And if I need advice from a couple like you ..... We would be real scared of the idea !!! and we would never go to a club and meet NICE swingers , we would wait to get to know a NICE couple or a guy around here , after all its the swingers world lost .... not ours !! And for you to say PACK HER STUFF AND MOVE ON....or... TO TELL ME WHERE TO GO....... I think its very rude !! hopefully we would never run into a couple like you........... its a disaster. I'm very sorry for my angry words here , but I (think) you wrote that post while you were angry too, drunk or not getting the things you wanted that night !!! very sorry again , dont take it personally but i hope you are a nicer person than I think and hope also for you to read posts carefully and not to judge without knowing the facts. I just wished We would of answer any of your questions or concerns before being so judgemental . Again I really dont mean anything bad and if you still want to talk to her or ask us a question then you are soooo welcome . PS ........... By the way shes here beside me now and read the whole post and is more concerned about swinging than before......Thanks to your post !!! benifit = benefit !

TO DBL D Thank you very much male D , your'e absolutly right, but there was no pressure from me what so ever and yes i have confirmation from the other guys that she really did it.one on her phone as a text and the other one (doctor) thru IM's on yahoo while i was sitting beside her , he was compliminting her on how great she was and how it was the best BJ he ever had ...lol. we talk about it often and I would never pressure her of doing anything she dont want to do, and yes i desire other women but i wont do it till she tells me to, thats our agreement, till she becomes more comfortable ... I have to wait, I dont mind as long shes having fun. thanks again and much appreciation for all of you.

TO.........jjtrindc and LikeMinds321 Thanks for you comments I really appreciate it , but under no circumistances I ever pressured her of doing anything she didn't want to, yes it was my idea but you have no idea how excited she was of doing it and still is, she really wanted it and drove on her own to meet them and I can tell of how happy she was when she came back. so me pressuring her is out of the question. After all shes the love of my life,the only flower in my garden , the candle that i see the light thru, she was and is always there for me as I am for her..... so how can i hurt my other beatiful half ??

bbarnsworth and Fun4ds ...........LOl, co worker is no longer there, and she went to doctors office at night cause he was on call (lol) so no one was there !! thanks for both of you on your encouragment. and to Fun4ds..... fears from her accent to go to a swingers club if shes comfortable she has no problem at all .... and its funny that the Doctor just text messaged her tonight to (schedual an appointment...lol) for her to go while hes alone in his office ...and shes excited !!

To Fun4d's..............LOL fears for going to a swinger club !! Her accent ?? she thinks its not a comfortable situation for her.

Hello everyone, We are very happily married couple, she's 34 / 127lb 5'2" and beautiful, he's 43 /200lb 6'0" handsome. We live in the Hudson Valley in New York, two hours north of the city. We have been talking about swinging for quite some time (like few years). He really wants to see her in action but she's very shy. To this point she only wants oral sex and was able to get it few times with a coworker, and once with hubby's doctor. She's cute enough that the doctor was eyeing her and caught her attention and hubby gave her the ok to proceed, and after few phone chats with the Doc she went to his office and had oral sex with him. Came back home and told hubby about everything that happened and of course we had the best sex ever afterword. At last she agreed now to perform front of hubby but only orally. She's very very shy to go to a swinging club specially because of her accent. She thinks that will be a problem communicating with other people, but he thinks otherwise. The other thing she's not confident enough about is because of her large breasts. She has a 36d on a 127 lb body which he thinks is beautiful. Hubby needs some encouragement from other members here, hopefully she would overcome her fears and go to a swingers club even though the only thing she feels comfortable with so far is oral. Any suggestions or comments are very much appreciated.