watchem_wiggle

Howdy! It's been a while since I've posted on here, not sure if my wife has lately.... Our combined schedules coupled with our local club's revamped fee structure means we don't get to play very often. WE do love to play together, but also separately. Now as we all know, it's so much easier for women to hook up in this world, it;s a sad fact that I've had to deal with. Up until last year I'd go on semi regular longer business trips and my wife would occasionally use SLS or craigslist to hook up successfully, with both men & women. On my trips, I struck out with scary regularity. Through the club here we have hooked up with a few people, we had a good time with all of them, but most of them were one offs or maybe we hooked up a couple of times but that was it. We had hit it off with one "couple" (he's married, she's single, they've been FWB for years) and have played with both of them and separately with both. She has since moved away and even though he and my wife have become quite the regular FWB (good for her!) he's gotten more and more uncomfortable with having a threesome with both of us, so for the most part they schedule their time together when I'm not home (or I'll go out if need be). We have a female FWB we are both very fond of but she lives 3 hours away so we only get to see her a few times a year. Now I've started trying to find myself a friend through various sites, my main profile/ads is on OKCupid. Bow the OKCupid profile has yielded 0 responses & the women I've tried to contact through that site have not gotten back to me. The Craigslist ad has yielded 2 encounters. Both were one offs, the first woman, even though contacting me the next day to say she had a good time and that she was looking forward to the next day, has since broken off all contact & the second woman I feel is leading me on, she keeps making plans to come see me or have me go to her place, then breaks them last minute. All ads on CL of women looking for me seem to be fake (one liners) or gold diggers ("I need help paying rent" or "please have party favors to share") so I rarely get a chance to respond to anything that's posted, and when I do I get no response. Please, could you guys read through my ads and tell me if I'm doing something wrong? My wife has read both and admitted she'd respond to either if she came across them. I'm really starting to lose faith here!

If there are I'd love to know what they are too! My wife and I have been swinging for around 4 years & other than meeting people at NH the few times we've gone, no real luck in finding people online! (we live in Lynnwood, north of Seattle)

Jack in The Box all the way baby!!!

The last potluck we went to (about a week and a half ago) we ran into a couple who had just joined the club at the anniversary party and remembered meeting us in the hot tub. We got into the tub together again and were joined there by another "couple", I use the quotes here because this is the first couple we've met that are strictly playmates (he's married and his wife encourages him to go to the club with his friend). After a good soak we we all headed upstairs, but separately. We plopped ourselves onto one of the more public beds and Amanda started to go down on me. We were pretty soon joined by the playmates and enjoyed a new set of bodies to explore. Afterwards we lay there and chatted, getting to know each other and the newbie couple walked by, after having enjoyed each other in a private cubby. They joined us and we chatted for a bit more, all 6 of us getting to know each other before Amanda and the female half of the playmate couple decided to start playing with each other's breasts again and started to involve the wife of the couple. She warned us that she was still lactating so not to suck on her nipples too hard. Well that got all of our attention! Of course she became the center of attention and Amanda wasted no time diving in for a taste. I watched her lick for a bit until I got turned on enough to get behind and fuck her while she licked the woman. After a bit I joined Amanda between the woman's legs and quickly took over, licking and fingering her to multiple orgasms before turning to Amanda and giving her her turn. When it all died down, the playmates excused themselves for the evening and we all headed down for a drink and another soak in the hot tub. Before closing the club, we went upstairs again to enjoy a quick round of same room sex, giving each other a good show. We've been in contact with all parties since then and re-peat encounters have been planned! It's just really exciting to help initiate another couple, after talking come to find out we were the first "strangers" to be included so hands on in their play.

well, usually Amanda and I cam together, and that attracts mostly guys that'll immediately spout out things like "show us that pussy" and "suck his cock".... This was my first time solo, just to tease, but it did its trick......maybe the webcam is magic, maybe my "nice package", as she referred to it, is....we will never know

During my trip to Portugal last month, we decided to expand the open-ness of our marriage to let each other play on our own. Me being on a business (a very physical one at that) trip and a guy meant that I got to jerk off a few times. Amanda being at home, having access to the club and being a woman, got laid no problem. I won't go into details, as I wasn't there and I really want Amanda to post those experiences here (however she's not so much into blogging as me) but one of her "encounters" was with a single woman in our home. This woman is more than happy to play with both of us or either of us seperately, and had actually told Amanda that upon our first meeting she would give me a "welcome, nice to meet you" blowjob. I'm sure they discussed how I love being blown (shocker, I know). Anyway, last week Amanda was out of town for an overnight retreat and we discussed the possibility of me playing. She had said that I was more than welcome to find someone online to play with but didn't want anyone in the house until we'd met them in a public setting....which I get totally and am not about to let a complete stranger into my place, especially with the kids sleeping in their room. The only exception would be her past playmate, as she'd already been "screened". Since we hadn't been able to get a hold of her since then, I figured that wasn;t going to happen anyway. To my suprise, she logged on to IM around 11 pm and we spent the next 3 hours getting to know each other, and I invited her over. She said she was tired but would think about it, and being the playful guy that I am, I suggested a preview if she didn't want to come...she said sure and after she "looked" me over on my webcam for a bit she decided she was coming over anyway. 10 minutes later she was at my door and we retreated into the bedroom where she told me to lay down and take my pants off, tonight was all about me. She proceeded to blow me and showing me her deep throat talents (I had never been deepthroated before this) but about 10 minutes into it she stopped and asked me to give her a minute, as ready as she was for this, she was exhausted, she lay her head on my crotch and dozed off almost immedeately...at this point she appologized profusely and said she had to get home, she usually didn't stay up this late and had to get up early the next day to go to work. All of this I completely understand. She left appologizing and sayign that at least I got a pre-view for the next time, which, hell yeah I did! We're still trying to work out our next encounter, which will be a threesome with Amanda, but until her work schedule and mine meshes, we'll have to wait! Tonight we're off to the club again, expect details later this week!

true, but in a club setting, it would be regularly maintenanced and cleaned, so not quite as disgusting?

In a rather hot conversation with my wife a few weeks back, I had brought up gloryholes as something I'd like to try....she then asked me "but what if it's another guy?" and I came to the conlusion that ignorance is bliss in that matter (I'm straight and have no interest in play with other guys, but don;t seem turned off by the idea of a stranger, possibly a man, sucking my cock) We also decided that it would be a great addition to our club (at least we think so) Of course now I have many questions, such as: Are there clubs that feature gloryholes? Just how popular are gloryholes in general? Where are they usually located? I've seen plenty of porn footage featurng gloryholes (including some homemade stuff online) but have never heard of one or even seen one.....so I'd like to throw it out there and see what you guys have to say about them!?

This past Saturday was our club's 30th anniversary party, and we figured what better occasion than to attend our first big weekend party!? Plus I had just come back after 3 weeks on the road and was itching to play (Amanda had gone by herself while I was gone and I'm still trying to get her to post that experience on here). Anyway, it was interesting to see the club so much fuller than what we're used to from wed. nights (200-300 people rather than the 30-40 during the week) I think about a dozen new couples joined the club that night. It was a very joyous gathering with a prime rib dinner and the unveiling of the club's new logo and website as well as honoring the founder of our club and all the longtime members.....then those members who happened to be celebrating their birthday were lined up and "honored" in their own special way by a good number of members (had I known this I woulda joined the honoring, next time I will!) Then it was off to the usual fun upstairs (we didn't stick around to dance as a good number of people did). Upstairs was equally as crowded, and with people hanging out downstairs for a while before coming up, there was definately a steady flow of new faces (and other parts) throughout the night. All in all we had a fun time, watched and were watched and ended the night with a little play with two other couples (I played with the wife of one couple while Amanda got to know the husband of the second couple). I think with the exception of a few special occasions though, we'll stick to Wednesdays....we're not really dancers, and the food didn't really warrant the fee hike that much.....pot lucks are ore fun anyway,never know what people are gonna bring! As far as the attendees, yes, there are a lot more of them, and oh boy were there some hotties there, but so far wednesdays have been good to us, and the atmosphere is so much more casual, I prefer that!

I findthe "producing the Wife" pricepoint a little untrue....while I do liketo look nice, I have never had fake nails, dyed hair, club wear, hell sometimes I forget to shave before heading out the door.......yet I always get laid. And I have never been turned away from a playsession

mmm... nummy! feel free to look us up when you're in the area!

please review our profile..we are currently free members, but want the best chance. We think we will be paid members soon, but are testing the waters here. watchem_wiggle at swinglifestyle.com

So a couple of weeks ago Amanda decided she wanted to suprise me after a long and tiring week of work by finding us a woman to play with in our home (or rather to play with me?!). She went on craigslist for this, but the timing was off, or I'm not too appealing to anyone in our area who knows, either way by the time I came home that night she hadn't gotten any responses yet. Not to be discouraged, we decided to play on cam that night (something we hadn't done in a while) and advertised for it both on Craigslist and here on the SB. As always, that was successful, and we played for an audience of 6 singles and 2 couples (first time we had couples watch us online). I could tell that our experiences at the club had loosened Amanda up a bit as she was willing to not only show her vagina this time, but was more than happy to have the camera pointed at it while I (and she) played with it. After this "Craigslist victory" she decided to try again and find us a playmate we could bring to the club with us the coming Wednesday. She found this girl who seemed like a good match for us, at least via email/chat and text messaging. Not so much in person, she turned out to be a ditzy flake who ended up just using us to get into the club and then do her own thing without us. To be quite honest, I find the lack of intelligence a turn-off, and even though she was hot and I did try to get her interested in us sexually, I don't think we missed out on much by not playing with her....I'm just very dissapointed at how the whole situation played itself out. Don't get me wrong, we played (Amanda and I that is) were watched and watched others, so it was a good night, just not the night of play we were both hoping for.

I am a college professor and he is a stage technician (and part time roadie)

We're new to the lifestyle, and we have young'uns, so for now we remain discreet. I have one friend who knows, only because I know her to be good secretkeeper. I am worried about others finding out. I teach at our Christian preschool, and am a deeply faithful Christian myself. I find that swinging doesn't conflict with my beliefs, as I am sure many of my brethren would disagree. I would be devastated if my congregation found out, because I feel they wouldn't understand. However, my pastors finding out doesn't scare me as much, because I know them to be a very kind and understanding husband and wife pastoring team, although they would wholeheartedly not approve of our lifestyle. I think if my dad found out, he'd freak out at first and then proceed to out us to the rest of the family in some deprecating joke. (He manages to find the humor in every situation) Mr. Wiggle's family (esp. his sis) wouldn't get it I don't think. And as open and alternative as his sis is compared to my sisters, I think she would honestly have the most objecting response.