We met in our early 20's. And although neither one of us were virgins, we sure didn't have a lot of experience ( you know, sexually). it took us twenty years of vanilla ( don't get me wrong it was good- just very, very vanilla) before we started to stretch our wings. I would only want to be with my love, but I wish sometimes that we had met later when we both weren't so damn uptight! We lost a lot of good times, but we're making up for it now. We don't swing, but burn up a lot of brain cells thinkin' about it!!