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Sex - How often do you NEED it?
Jim&Shelley replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
"Just us" is usually 3 times a week at lest (if Jim is home and not traveling with work). Playing with friends is a plus. -
Does a history of cheating lead to swinging?
Jim&Shelley replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
She and I both cheated, that is how we came to be together;-) I had cheated once and she was the second affair of my ten year marriage. She had cheated twice and I was the third affair of her six year marriage. -
Shell was going to her HS reunion about 3 hours away...I gave her permission to play....she did...the story when she got home...SO HOT!!!
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Well I have been able to cum 3 times with a latency time between erections of 10 to 15 minutes...I guess I am getting older...because now twice seems to be my limit...after cumming twice the last several times I tried for round three it was 45 minutes to an hour before I got another erection...once the next moring :-( Shelley has cum as many as 8 in an evening (that I know of;-))
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How did your swinging First Time happen?
Jim&Shelley replied to married_lovers's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Our first two expierences were with the same couple...a friend of mine and her husband. We have been hanging out a couple friends for over ten years. We have always made little "swinging jokes" especially on vacation. Over a year ago we rented a cabin in the Smoky Mountains of East Tennessee. Leaving the kids at home we planned a great weekend. Our first night after dinner and wine our friends suggested some hot tub time to relax and enjoy the lights of the city below. I forgot mine and hubby swimsuits, then he (friends husband) suggested skinny dipping - even offered to let the ladies get in first before the guys came outside. Well we were game, all friends - right? So we skinny dipped in the hottub. Aftereards we went to our bedrooms. Second day we shopped etc. After eating that night we returned, fixed drinks and stripped down and returned to the hot tub. Well after a while (and some drinks) in the tub, snuggeld up with our spouse...my friends husband started asking "when are we gonna swap"...well I spoke up and said I would snuggle with him and let my hubby snuggle his wife...well everone shifted around and we did. Well the conversation progressed...there was alot of kissing each other partner then ALOT of touching... We ended up inside each couple having sex (not-swapped) in the living room. The next weekend we went to thier house, no kids again. Well Saturday night we swapped in the same room for oral only, then had intercourse with our usual partner. Sunday after brunch, we swapped for oral again before we left. Two weeks later we swapped again and progressed to intercourse...and its been a crazy ride ever since:flashing: -
Jim told me he posted our expierence. Yes I would totally get together with Mr. Stud again...but I admit she was not a fircracker by any means....but Jim, Mr Stud and I had fun:kissface: Jim thinks she is just not into sex; however, I truly think she did not feel good. She had been drinking red wine and at one point said to me in the ladies room at the restaurant "I love red wine but someitmes it makes me think my head is going to explode" as she was taking an non=prescription headache medicine. I think they deserve a second chance but my opinion is Jaded I guess...
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Yes it does, especially since she was alot of fun before clothes came off. We have thought:?did she have a headache from the red-wine she was drinking? or does just go along to "keep her DH" happy but does not really like swinging and/or possibly sex? Like I said they were a blast socially, and Shell had a great time, but Mrs Dead Fish marks them off our playlist as far as I am concerned, maybe we should give it a second try....alot of questions. Personally, I think life is to short for boring sex;-)
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Ok we were going to Memphis (for my Job) Shell was going along. We had meet a couple on "MySpace" about 9 months ago...we had chatted ALOT and actually meet for dinner and drinks 3 months ago in Nashville (Knowing we would not play since "Mr Stud" had just had back surgery 3 weeks before and was on activity restriction. That night we had fun, laughed, drank and had a great non-sexual time. Jump ahead to our trip and we ask them if they want to meet in Memphis. They immediatly said yes.....so we meet in the lobby of the hotel, had drinks in the bar, went to dinner, drank, danced and then went to the hotel room. So things get going and thus we nicknamed them "Mr Stud and Mrs Dead Fish". "Mr Stud" and my wife had an AWESOME time....however me and "Mrs Dead Fish" there was something wrong....she just laid there eyes closed and did not seem into it....I asked her if she wanted to stop (several times) and she always said "No, I want you to screw me"....finally I came and she got up and went to the bathroom and closed the door. After about 15 minutes she came out (put panties and bra on) and sat in a chair while I sat naked on the bed....all the while Mr Stud and Shell are still going strong...... So they finish and Shell joins me in the bed I am in, KNOWS I am disappointed, and begins making out and jumps on me THANK GOD knowing I needed some real action....meanwhile I notice MR Stud and Mrs Dead Fish are doing it...once again she is laying on the bed eyes closed and seems totally not into him while he is watching us....a few minutes pass and she is up getting dressed and he is sitting on the bed jerking it.....so Shell gets up on all fours and takes us both on me doggy and him oral....after we finish we chat and talk and Mrs Dead Fish reads the freaking paper....after about 30 minutes she states they need to go.....and they leave......we get home and have an email from her about the GREAT time they had and they want to get together again.......but she never seemed really into it. Supposedly this are expierenced swingers. Any thoughts of similar expierence
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Did You "Jump In" swinging or did you "Wade In"?
Jim&Shelley replied to intuition897's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We waded in...first skinny dipping and A LOT of talk and flirting with other couple. Then kissing that progressed to oral sex before finally intercourse. We only swapped with them for several months. Over the last year we have played one other couple somewhat regularly and have attended 3 parties. -
How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?
Jim&Shelley replied to SuAndBud's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We both can perform in the open but she really likes when we go to separate bedrooms especially when we are playing with our favorite couple...sometimes we spend the night with the other person to give the opportunity for "wake-up" sex which Shelley really loves especially with "the other Jim".- 53 replies
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Kissing a woman after she has given oral sex
Jim&Shelley replied to cuzzeyesaidso's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
If we are with a "regular"couple (now have 2 that we play with frequently) then yes I will kiss her after she swallows. If "new" playmates...she does not swallow...usually!!!- 128 replies
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Did you have sex in high school?
Jim&Shelley replied to Alura's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I lost my virginity at 15, while in high school, Jim was 19 and in college when he got laid for the first time. -
We have one couple we play bareback with...I had never thought of this situation but my Jim loves to have intercourse when I am freshly unfresh...plus I have found it fun