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30 ExcellentAbout EnchantedBiLove
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Contributor
- Birthday 07/07/1973
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
Married Couple
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Location
Sheboygan, Wisconsin
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Interests
We are gamers, that love to have fun--in lots of ways!! WE can have a good time watching movies, playing board games, having a picnic, going to a gaming convention,.....or painting eachother with chocolate body paint and taking it from there lol.
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Occupation
Internet Sales Business Owner
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Swinging Experience
Newly Entering Lifestyle
Swinger Info
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SLS Name
EnchantedBiLove
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EnchantedBiLove started following Only attracted to 1/2 of a couple ??
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How loud are you in bed?
EnchantedBiLove replied to Miss_Piggy's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Are you kidding me - I orgasm better when I can just let it all out and scream like a Banshee lol. Of course, we do have a child down the hall, so I have to restrain myself. -
Only attracted to 1/2 of a couple ??
EnchantedBiLove replied to EnchantedBiLove's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Yeah--I definitely understand that and I would be a hypocrite to judge only by physical appearance anyway. The lack of attraction seems to be in things like significant age differences--that are putting us on different wavelengths in interest areas, and etc. Or, "silly" things like excessive facial hair--which I really cannot stand because it will give my extremely sensitive skin a rash (especially in delicate areas ). BTW--is it me or does there seem to be a LOT of the guys with goatees and mustaches??? In Wisconsin at least lol. When it comes down to it, maybe I am just being picky--because right now I DO primarily crave another woman's touch. I will take all of your advice to heart--it has been very enlightening. TyVM! -
What is it about my profile that makes these single guys keep trying to IM me for some action??? It clearly shows on there that we are looking for couples or single women--and not single guys. Why oh why do they bother to reply? I mean--there are PLENTY of "Singles" sites out there, aside from the swinging folks that ARE looking for single guys for their threesomes. I try to be nice and let them down gently--but when one says, "well Fuck You Bitch!" that does have a tendency to rub me the WRONG way!!
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Only attracted to 1/2 of a couple ??
EnchantedBiLove replied to EnchantedBiLove's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Thank-you so much for all the wonderful perspectives and advice I have been gven here. To clarify my question, without putting anyone in an awkward position: We have received a number of responses to our posting. Some have been from couples that were, shall we say, not what I am looking for necessarily--but the female is ok by what my husband wants. The thing is, I really am not looking for another male for the most part, save for a few specific sexual fantasies that my husband is not interested in doing with me...see Anal. . I really want him to get to be with the women he is attracted to, and am trying to find things in the men that are the other half of these couples, that I could be attracted to as well--but it's not going so well. Mind you--I am also VERY Bi, and finding the women attractive as well lol. I am thinking that going to the parties might just be more productive for us lol. We do want to form friendships with some of the folks as well....wait, that's gonna be another thread, nm lol. -
So, here we go--well at least partially anyway lol. Hubby and I are going out for drinks tonight with "part" of a full-swap couple tonight. Unfortunately his wife is out of town until tomorrow--she's at a swing club herself though lol. We will also be stopping by the the bar another member works at to meet him jsut to say hi! We really are jumping in! Updates later!
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Party of Four Your Table is Ready
EnchantedBiLove commented on Swingercast's blog entry in Swingercast's Blog
I loved this blog! Thanks for the little bit of silliness with information tucked in just before we have our first meetup ...tonight!! -
Ok, so, here's an interesting thought that has come to my mind: what happens "hypothetically" if a couple seeks out another couple they have seen a profile of on a swingers site, and that couple only finds one or the other other of them attractive--for any reason? (Personality or otherwise.) What would the etiquette be here? Thanks for your input!
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Pictures that turn you off!
EnchantedBiLove replied to twotocum4u2's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We prefer to see pics that show a person's eyes over their genitals anyday--I mean, there is a lot more to be told by ones eyes then their hoo-hoo anyday lol. The pics that need to be looked for more closely are ones that, appear to be "fake" or set up for promotion of something other then the sites intent. Also, ones that have girls with questionable age and can't show proof they really are old enough. -
Greetings all! We are new here, and to the lifestyle totally...so be gentle lol. We are gamer geeks--from RPG's to Magic the Gathering, and video games to board games...we enjoy it all. We have even been to Gen Con--twice! Fantasy and role-playing are a strong interest, and we would like to carry that over into "other" areas of our life BTW lol. We want to have fun and see what happens--with no pressure. Hubby is shyer, and looking for a little additional attention from another woman, and am looking for both the touch of another woman, as well as some specific bodily fantasies explored with another man. We joined the SLS and have a great profile and pics there, so look us up there--and hopefully we can meet some new people, make some new friends, and....try some NEW things. Can't wait to talk! TTFN....Shel