kate_and_ray

Thanks for inquiring. I did send her mail within the swinger site, however she has not logged in for a while and has not seen the message yet. Thank you all for your advice on approaching this matter. In the email, I told her that I had seen her profile and wanted to say hi. That we were new to the lifestyle and I was glad to see someone I knew on the site and that we had been to a couple of out of area clubs that left a lot to be desired and were there any good ones in the area. I thought in the least it would be nice to know someone local that was an old friend and in the lifestyle. My concern about contacting her was that this is a small area and maybe she wouldn't want to be discovered. Seems unlikely though since her profile pic shows her and her SO's faces!

My husband and I are new to the lifestyle. While we haven't actually had our first experience, we have been actively searching. Our searches have led us to numerous swinger's sites and on more than one of these sites we have discovered one of my old friends from childhood, including high school. So it has been many years since I have had contact with her. My question is, how do I approach her if at all? Since we are newbies, it would be nice to know someone else in our area who might be a good source of information. We both have pics in our profiles, but I'm not sure she would recognize me. Any thoughts or insight would be greatly appreciated.

This is my first post as I am a newbie (no experiences yet) but we just attended our first swing club event this weekend. I totally agree with Spoomonkey because I freaked out when my husband even discussed swinging with me. Since then I have become a lot more sexually adventurous.