ONe more story..
few years ago, i went running and noticed a beautiful woman at the track.. i went home, cleaned up and went to the cafe we used to hang at (in Berkeley) and saw the same woman there (in her mid 20s) ..we met, tried to go to a movie, couldn't find anything interesting, went to my place (sad thing, i was coming down w/ a major back injury and barely enjoyed it)..
she was totally clueless about oral and what you may get thru it..i think most ppl take a big risk of not being safe doing oral..(w/ strangers o/c)