I'm a single bi female & while I've been interested in the swinging lifestyle for years (even before I was single), I've never 'taken the plunge' and don't really know how to go about it. I'm not new to the 'bi' scene though. I love ladies and I love men. I love people. What's most important to me in a partner is chemistry, not whatever parts they have. Whatever their parts are, if I like the person, I'm in. The parts are just the tools to make them feel good, right? Ok, I deviated.
Back to point. My life is kinda hectic these days and even if it wasn't, I would have no one to go with to a club and I don't really know people in the lifestyle. I have no idea how to go about meeting people. Any suggestions?
Swinging is seriously something I've thought about for a long time. I get that it is not 'technically' swinging when you're single, but I feel more interested in swinging couples than vanilla boys. I feel that a swinging couple would be more in tune with their sexuality and exploring it more and with a more like mind to mine, if that makes sense.
I've been reading on these boards and have found much help in the posts of those more experienced than I to this lifestyle. Everyone seems honest and open in their posts and I was hoping to get a bit more personalized advice for how to go about this. Most pointedly, how to meet others minus a club and preexisting swinger friends.
Thanks in advance
