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lovelygirl2

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  • Birthday 09/22/1971

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    M. Female - 1/2 of Swinging Couple
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  1. I agree with Lee that this comes in all forms - I've seen some couples as well that have some pretty bold statements in their profiles. It just seems more prevalent with single females - and I think they get away with it more because they are so sought after. I just can't believe anyone could have that inflated of an opinion about themself. My hubby and I also tend to subscribe to the belief that these types are probably not very good in bed anyway. Their over-inflated egos lead them to believe that just being HOT is all they need to bring to the table - the pleasing is up to the person who is honored enough to be with them. Not either of our idea of a good time The opposite holds true as well - I don't want a single guy who is just going to worry about me without any respect to his own pleasure. A good play session is about the give and take, the mutual pleasure - the sitting back at the end and going - DAMN that was fun
  2. First off, we're not one of those couples who's sole purpose is to find a single girl. If one fell into our lap, we wouldn't turn it down, but we don't go looking. But I have read a few single girl profiles lately that have me scratching my head. (and I know they are real people because of certs that I know the source) One today went on and on about how she likes to be the center of attention and that she usually is because she is sooooo hot. Another one stated flat out - I'm the single girl, I get to make the rules. Another one said - it's about my pleasure, not yours. Does this turn anyone else off? I wouldn't play with one of these girls if you paid me. Do people really fall for that BS? My personal opinion is that these types are the ones paid by certain Meet&Greet promotors to fluff... but I'm not positive.
  3. I also think there is a big difference between who we reject on email vs who we reject in person. We've rejected people via email and then met them out and totally changed our minds. My biggest reason for rejecting a couple is when the male half just doesn't flirt. Or talk. Or anything. Feels like too many men send in their wife to get them laid and then just go a long for the ride. We've also rejected for bad teeth. Drives me crazy. Crooked is fine - a complete lack of attention to hygiene makes me gag. If one of the people is disrepectful or flat out ignores one of us, it's also a no. We rejected a couple in email because all their pics involved handcuffs - and not a single one of them looked like they knew how to use them. More like a look at us, we have handcuffs. lol Other email rejections are ones that are just - look at our profile, if interested email us back. And then the profile says NOTHING or there are absolutely no pics. Too many rules in a profile will also get a no. I don't like negative people. If your profile has more we won'ts, or we don'ts than it does we will or we are, then it's gonna be a no. We'd prefer to be with positive upbeat people who don't take themselves too seriously. Tell us who you are, not who you aren't, or who you don't like. And on that note... We DO respond to people who tell us something about themselves in an email. We DO respond if they can tell us something about why they are writing to us and not just throwing out darts and hoping it sticks. We DO like couples who are having fun, even when no one else is talking to them at that moment. We like couples who look like they love each other and aren't just looking for a distraction from each other. You know the ones that will be just as content playing the two of them as they will in a group. We like people who don't take themselves or the LS too seriously. We had a couple turn a no into a yes when the husband leaned in and kissed me lightly and my knees buckled (yes, he asked first) Basically, we like people who are happy, smiling, and having fun.
  4. Hubby is in a local band - so we always can say we met people through that. Or we can say there's a show that night. Only problem I find is when there actually is a show that conflicts with a good meet & greet we want to go to
  5. We both smoke. And we tend to smoke more when we drink. So far it's never been a big issue for us - but if it did happen that someone passed us by because we smoked, I wouldn't really give it another thought. One thing about smoking though - here it is illegal to smoke in a bar. So you have to go outside. We normally use that time to our advantage - when one of us is stuck talking to someone and needs a rescue, we say let's go smoke. When one of us wants to check in with the other to get an opinion on a couple, we say let's go smoke. If a play situation is hitting a rough patch and we feel we need to touch base in private, we say let's go smoke. Yes we realize it's a horrible habit and yes we realize that it's not good for us and yes we will likely quit in the near future. But right now it's serving its purpose. What do non-smokers do when they need to get a break with each other? (honestly, I'm really curious)
  6. Please please please if you put up a profile anywhere use this same screenname so we know who to avoid! In my two years in the lifestyle, I have experienced a few times where the male half had anxiety or performance issues. It's not uncommon and it's not a big deal. You can't take it personally. And to make a big deal about it is not nice and certainly not a good way to treat "friends". And god forbid I'm ever in a situation where some guy decides to punch my husband in the head while we are in the middle of a good time simply because his gf decided my husband was rejecting her. I can guarantee that that would not end well. While I agree with the poster who said that trying again with this couple is drama, I also think that the OP is pretty high up on the drama scale as well. I can't understand why someone would take an issue in a play session so personally. My take on the situation is that while you are angry at their seeming selfishness, you and your gf have displayed quite a bit of selfishness and immaturity. I think you need to do a good bit of introspection on this one.
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