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ourrockstarlife

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About ourrockstarlife

  • Rank
    What Would Betty Do?
  • Birthday 04/26/1977

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Virginia
  • Occupation
    Ethical Hedonist

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    curious775454
  1. Njoy makes several steel plugs, they are quite beautiful too There are also steel plugs with an ornate jewel on the flared end, meant to be worn....and don't fall out eXtreme Anal Jewelry
  2. I think the lifestyle needs to NOT be a part of your marriage until you two have gone to counseling and worked this out. Your wife was extrodinarily disrespectful to you and damaged that trust you need to be swingers. Get out of the life, get it together.
  3. We are not opposed to playing with n00bs, we were n00bs once ourselves . But it is a little harder. More preparation, more conversation, stress over "who makes the move" not trying to be pushy or predatory, knowing limits and rules.....it's difficult .
  4. God I was CRACKING UP JESUS IS WATCHING YOU SPANK YOUR MONKEY
  5. Landover Baptist Church - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia It is a joke PHEW
  6. I fully agree. Our jobs dictate our necessity to be ultra discreet, and it is really exhausting. Battling my need to be "free" and "open" with the practical issues. I'm too afraid Westboro Baptist will protest my funeral if we come out.
  7. DJ and I do not play apart, so we are always together. Do I "get off" just from watching him with another woman? Not particularly. I do love to see him from a different perspective when he's in action. Not so much the fact that he is "fucking" someone else, just to see him doing what he does so well. Makes me proud, you could say I touch base often, catch his eyes, or tangle my arm up with his if we are close together. I think that connection is important. However, it does turn me on when I am working him over with another female riding shotgun. Just his reaction is enough to make me hot.
  8. Lets just keep fucking until we are all the same color..... DJ and I enjoy all bodies, but he really enjoys watching me with a black man. I saw it mentioned already, but he swears by the contrasting colors as well. He said that something about the two different skin tones is very erotic....and I agree. Darker skin is so beautiful.....we love it. I do think the "taboo" of it is part of the allure of interracial swinging for some couples. For us, it is more about the aesthetics.
  9. I think that most people twist the idea of swinging to fit their own agenda. Swinging is defined as the practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex. If you are single, and have sex with other single people, i don't think you can consider it swinging. As for the topic at hand: DJ and I tend to make our encounters with singles infrequent. Most of our single playfriends are only "single" at times, mostly because their significant other allow them to play alone. In our experience ( not the law, as most opinions are not, so please refrain from lighting me up ) couples allowing single women into their bedroom on a frequent basis USUALLY end up with a disaster. (we have a couple we have been friends with that have a court date pending over this kind of situation) Perhaps the "unicorn" truly is a fable. Is it possible to enjoy a NSA relationship with a single female? I don't know, but based on what I have observed, we prefer to stay away. For us, it is couples only, and the occasional single male (once in a blue moon)
  10. Here is my two cents, given with the upmost in respect RAPE=CONTROL AND VIOLENCE. PERIOD. Curiosity, self-esteem, shyness etc are NOT motives of rape, no matter which way you explain it.
  11. DJ and I have a couple that we LOVE who just happen to be interracial. They have said that they have a real problem finding playmates. The male half of the couple is convinced it is because he is black. I think he is right. We live in Virginia, and I really think regional attitudes effect the swinger community just as they do the vanilla community The way I see it, it's your loss and my gain. Beautiful bodies come in all shades......... On the same note, virility and prowess come in all shades. I have seen black men, white men, Hispanic men, all kinds of men that have no "game" and are disappointing in the sack. Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction etc is a MALE problem and does not plague one ethnic persuasion exclusively. There are plenty of white men (DJ included) who have ROCKED my world. Every individual KNOWS what they are attracted to and should not be expected to compromise. If you happen to be a white female that is EXCLUSIVELY attracted to black men.....GOOD FOR YOU! ROCK IT WITH PRIDE!!! However, I would not find it necessary to explain why. If that's what your into, do it til your satisfied! And the same goes for all you freeky folks that make this lifestyle what it is.
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