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CollegeCouple24 last won the day on May 22 2013

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About CollegeCouple24

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  • Birthday 09/11/1983

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Massachusetts
  • Interests
    Him - videogames, art, and the piano! Her - art, reading, board games.
  • Occupation
    We both work in the non-profit sector.
  • Swinging Experience
    8 years, but pretty inconsistently.
  • Anniversary
    May 31

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  • Favorite Club(s)
    Clubs are not our thing :( But we've been to Sinz on the north shore and a off-premise party.

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  1. Anything directed by Erika Lust. Very, very tasteful and ungodly erotic. I promise! Cabaret Desire is amazing. Life Love Lust is my favorite though. Her stuff is really amazing and she's a strong advocate for women's and LGBT sexuality. ERIKA LUST - Award-winning writer and erotic film director LustCinema - Warning!
  2. The second, as in assertive. I didn't mean to hijack this thread, but rather intended to offer our dissenting viewpoint. Sorry!
  3. Ha! For those who want her to go away, it sounds very mentally exhausting. But we wouldn't be asking her to go away...I was saying aggressiveness in another woman is not a con in our book, rather a challenge that takes us out of our comfort zone, which we welcome
  4. We don't actually run into aggressive people very often but somewhat seek them out. In a lot of ways, swinging is a chance to get out of our comfort zones and in the last few years, we've looked for mental stimulation over physical. For us, aggression usually means competition and it's not easy to find that in couples new to the LS or couples interested in the social side of swinging. I know my partner is turned on by tension between myself and the other woman and aggressive women tend to be good candidates for trading barbs (in good fun). It can be difficult to deal with and I understand how it can be off-putting to many, similarly, I'm not approving of continued aggression when the recipient has signaled they're not interested - but for me at least, I choose male. It borders creepiness and nothing is more of a turn-off to me than creeps.
  5. Double vaginal penetration is 99% outtakes, 1% actual sexing. If I didn't feel like I was giving birth, I would have been crying laughing at the boys trying to get it going. Watch out for the flying feet in the reverse cowgirl position if she is sitting down.
  6. Some of the couples we played with WAY back when are still part of our mutual group of friends. They've asked if we still "do that" and we're honest about it but they don't anymore. Beyond them, we haven't really felt the need to tell anyone. I'm curious why so many of the initial responses were of family/co-workers finding people on websites?? Is that typical?
  7. Same here! We only play quick and dirty and are not very nurturing to any swinging relationships. It's partially a free-time problem and partially a we-already-have-a-group-of-friends thing. The downside is that we aren't very compatible with couples new to the lifestyle and I've personally always liked onboarding people
  8. I think you're spot on when it's discussed as a fantasy. When/If it becomes a reality, that reason is probably too shaky to stay standing and leads to the erratic/oh-my-god-i-didn't-actually-want-this behavior.
  9. What's worse is maybe eight times out of ten aren't even intentionally lying, they literally think that they're eight inches +, etc. I've been (actually, we've both been) in enough of the "Um, that's not eight, it's six inches" conversations to now avoid them at all costs. It's not even in a judgmental tone because like you said, I could care less too, but even hinting that their balls do not count towards length is grounds for an argument I've never been interested in having. The silver lining being when an 8 inch is actually an 8 inch...I'm utterly shocked when it happens.
  10. Neither of us can tie a knot to save our lives, so we've never described ourselves as a bdsm couple. ~8 years ago, kink meant bdsm and not to get off topic, but we've felt that the type of mainstream porn plays a huge role in what becomes generally acceptable. Even now I see posts like "do you have a hall pass?" where neither of us had heard the phrase before a recent movie came out or discussions about the content of 50 shades...the definition of it changes now and again. For us, and most recently, kink has been cattiness between the other female and myself (have seen couples advertise "ultimate surrender" type swaps), verbal humiliation and things like double penetration and double vaginal penetration come up whereas prior to 2 years ago, I had never been asked to do double vaginal penetration. The only constant kink for us has been being uncomfortable in a swap and/or competition between couples. The former being too varied to name and competition being more exciting than kink
  11. It's not a movie (sorry) but early Wife Switch was okay/good. Boyfriend likes it a lot. Let's see what else he has in his folders...ha! American Swingers I'll Fuck Your Wife If You Fuck Mine (I, II, and III apparently. hmm) Interracial Swingers Swing High, Swing Low I can't endorse any of them but, it looks like they're swinger movies
  12. Every time I see a facial cumshot, I can't help but feeling the male is trying to mark something as his. It feels too demeaning for me so, not into it. Odd, I don't mind spitting though.
  13. It was fun to read about your NE trip. Come up to Boston next time if you have the chance, there's a lot to see
  14. I've never been involved in a gangbang...I've seen them, but not taken part. I think, one after another, if I was attracted to each of them...four. I've yet to see a situation where that is doable though...like, lined up outside? That's not appealing to me...but still...four.
  15. It requires a lot of preparation (for me at least) and frankly, I'd just prefer not to deal with it. It comes up about 50% of the time for us, but is usually just a feeler to see how you react.
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