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I won't deny, it's important to us. Contacts through SLS, or other means are slow and not as interactive. With yahoo (or other chat programs) we can find out very quickly if we're going to be compatible. There's no back and forth of email or messages, no lag time. To be honest, chatting with someone is often an easier way to get to know them than talking to them in person. As Julie mentioned, you don't need to have a window to SLS open all the time when you have a 3rd party messaging system. It sits in your taskbar, waiting for messages. Also important to note - you can set yourself 'invisible' to everyone, or just specific contacts, in the event that you don't want to appear online to some folks. We created a yahoo ID just for chatting with couples, and it worked out ok. No privacy issues, as we only disclose what we want to disclose over chat.

Well... ISTJ Introverted Sensing Thinking Judging Strength of the preferences % 56 12 62 33 ISTJ type description by D.Keirsey ISTJ type description by J. Butt ISTJ Career Choices by Jung Career Indicator™ Provides the list of occupations most suitable for your type taking into account the type formula and strength of the preferences. Based on a sample representing 40 most popular and high-demand occupations. Qualitative analysis of your type formula You are: * moderately expressed introvert * slightly expressed sensing personality * distinctively expressed thinking personality * moderately expressed judging personality And the career thing? Dead on with technology and accounting!

It's kind of a mutual thing. If a guy gives me the creeps, or something, I'll let her know and we won't play. Both of us have to be 'on board' to play, so to speak.

Only in a condom. For two reasons: 1) Safety 2) It's something she's 'saving' for me. There are some things some couples won't do, this is one of ours. Silly? Maybe. But that's how it is.

I took it, even if we're fairly new to doing this together. Let us know if the results come in - it should be interesting!