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  1. Thanks for the great answers and ideas. I am not looking to have the wife take one for the team. I love sex but if all I wanted was sex with different partners and my wife was unwilling to play, then I would get a hooker or find someone(s) to cheat with. Since I don't do that I am really more interested in us, her and I, exploring life together. Since she is saying "no" pretty clearly, I am looking for ways to stop thinking about this as being something that could be fun and find a way to accept her answer, even though right now I think she might want to say yes but is afraid. I'm thinking "get another hobby" is the way to go. More nudism plans, maybe convince her to take up tennis or golf (she hates tennis but is ok with golf). I realize she is not being clear about why she is saying no and I would love to understand that and maybe if I give her 100% guarantee thing she will tell me eventually. Other ideas for dropping the idea or will this always be an issue for us?
  2. Thanks for all the great replies. I agree my wife is wonderful. As stated in my post, I am looking for advice on how I can just drop the idea altogether; that is how can i give up the idea altogether.
  3. Each time I have given her assurance, and reassurance, that we are not there to make contact...just watch. The idea of offering "100% guarantee" might be helpful. While there she tells me despite my assurance, she feels "pressure". I ask her where it's from the pressure and she says the whole atmosphere...that people are there to have sex or find people to have sex with.
  4. We are a couple married about 15 years. We have visited a few swingers clubs and each time my wife has wanted to leave after a short time. She feels uncomfortable. As soon as we leave she is all over me or herself, sometimes stipping nude in the car on the way home. When I ask her to go back, she is relucant. She will go to dances with me at nude resorts (we have a few local nude resorts) but swing clubs are now a "NO WAY" response. I know I should just drop it but I am obsessed with the idea that we can have some fun if we went in that we might meet some new friends who are a little more open than our existing set of friends. For example, My wife is bi-curious for sure and I would like her to enjoy herself and I suspect there are other couples in the same boat. We are occasional nudists but we never get to go with friends, it's just us (which is fine too). Suggestions on how I can just drop it are most welcome.
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