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  • Birthday 05/02/1973

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    M.Female
  • Location
    Grand Rapids Michigan
  • Swinging Experience
    New
  1. Girl: That question is completely different, and as others have said: Each couple makes their own rules. There is no universal right or wrong answer to your question. The reason that I ask this in this thread (acknowledged that a new thread should/could be started) is because of the postings regarding asking before playing - I do suspect that I may have confused posts so I will cross post this as a new post.
  2. We arc still fairly new to all of this and so as I have followed this post some questions have come to mind... If you are at a swingers club for the evening and dancing and having a good night, do you need permission from the SO of the person you are dancing with if things progress to kissing and petting - in the open - if the persons spouse is aware you are "hanging" out together?
  3. Lovinher... that is exactly what I think I was wanting to hear! Thanks.
  4. Shelly, thanks... I guess I just want to know, get reassurance that it isn't as important to others as I percieve it to be. I definately think I am working the confidence and the appeal, I am just working with years of insecurities to get past. I recognize that others have issues and imperfections also and it helps to hear from others that those imperfections are not as important as they may be percieved to be. Heather
  5. I haven't read all of the threads so I don't know if something like this has been addressed but here goes! Over the last year I have lost a significant amount of weight and it has affected my enjoyment of sex in a very positive way which is awesome - my husband is thrilled also. We are both very into bringing others into our sex life and my new body has made me discover how uninhibited I am.... with my clothes on. Here is where my problem comes in. I am very nervous about being naked in front of someone other than my husband. With my clothes on I think I look good (ok, average, cute) but naked, the weight loss has left me flabby . How do I proceed when it comes to others? What should I expect? Should I be nervous that when it comes to taking off my clothes people are going to be running scared? We have never done this before and I am afraid of peoples reactions. Am I just overthinking things?
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