I really appreciate your knowledge and advice,
I use to have a profile on SLS (not any more), and it was behind my wife (not cheating) but just trying to get some ideas on how to get her to do it...what I find there is mostly men trying to get to whatever.
I love my wife and never did or well do any thing to upset her, I just love her to be able to enjoy sex in a swinging way....I'm going to get that tape and see if it can help.
thanks again.