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danjan

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danjan last won the day on March 30 2008

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About danjan

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  • Birthday 01/30/1975

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  1. Ok, not being able to get up can be an issue and does happen. It could have been the alcohol along with anxiety that caused it. Always go easy on the booze, stay calm and don't over think it. If it does happen, and it will, try to find other ways to please her. It may be all it takes to get you to relax enough to rise to the occasion. Ground rules are important. Honesty and open communication are the key. You should have already spent some time talking to your partner about your personal ground rules. When talking to another couple or third, you have to find out what is acceptable and what is not. Nobody wantd to find out in the middle of it that something is not right. It could turn it in to a very awkward situation. Having a couple of get togethers ahead of play time should help everyone get to know each other a bit and setting ground rules. As for not burning bridges and keeping options open, just be who you are. If you enjoyed it, let them know that. If there was something lacking, maybe you can figure out what and how to make it better should there be a next time. Above all, relax and have fun.
  2. We have had mmf threesomes and have tried to accomplish a dvp. It didn't work out the way we hoped, but was fun to try. I think the problem was with the alcohol causing a lack of rigidity in one participant. Lesson learned.
  3. There is definitely a double standard at play. My wife and I are both bisexual. By being open and honest about it to each other it has become easier to be more open about it in general. I think that there are more bisexuals out there that are unwilling to admit it. When even the gays and lesbians look down on bisexuals, it is easy to see why most are unwilling to admit the truth. On the bright side, for people like us the possibilities are endless!
  4. We have always used our bed, the couch, back seat...
  5. [ I would say Do Not bring in the ex. That would definetly complicate what could be a great experience for the two of you. Going with someone you both now may seem more comfortable, but you have to consider the morning after. Things will be different with that person, once done it can't be undone. Good luck on your quest I hope its a fulfilling experiance
  6. We are Catholics and swingers. We believe strongly in our religion but don't feel that our sex life is a sin. As long as both partners remain honest with each other, commited to each other and true to themselves(hard to do I know) and all participating people are willing no sin is commited.
  7. As a male, I can tell you I have done this and would do it again. It was a wonderful experience. As far as the climax is concerned, Jan let us both cum in each of her openings and doesnt regret that either.As a general rule, if your both willing, go for it.Even if you don't like it, at least you have tried and can say so rather than always wondering what you may have missed.The whole point is, have fun and try new things together.
  8. We just wanted to get everyone's thoughts on being with plus size women/couples. I know that everyone fantasizes about super model women and buff guys, but in reality.... Anyway, is it a problem for people, or is it more about the situation, attitude, ect.
  9. I can tell you that as a man, seeing my wife pleased is the best treat there is, contact between males can be limited. In the heat of passion some contact does happen but does not take away from the whole expierience.The most important thing to remember is that you are doing this as a couple. First thoughts would be that the female is getting most of the pleasure, but that is simply not true. As long as you are a couple engaged in a fantasy with another ( male or female) the pleasure is mutual. Dont let any insecurities hold you back, if there are any reservations of either partner wait. No need to add stress to a relationship.
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