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  1. I wrote this thread. I love this site. You can seek advice, have questions answered and a form where you can express your views, see what others think. I neither advocate nor promote anything, it is merely something to think about. There are many good people on this site, intelligent, much subject savvy and experienced and most of all articulate. Others are totally off base, miss key elements of what is said and insert off the wall things of their own to come to a conclusion and insinuate that the writer is an idiot or a fake. I never even intimated that he purposely followed. He left last and walking behind me is following. You give it a different meaning. I would be cautious if followed too, in your sense. I would come up swinging if someone walked up to me and started that. I said they had walked along together for some time, stopped and talked for some time. I made every inference that for a non bi-sexual reason hormones were at work at the time of the first move. It was a thread that took a person that was open-minded enough to let other men fuck his wife and watch her and a friend eat each other's pussy (swinging is not the common sexual activity of couples). You have to be open-minded to accept wife swapping as fun. Are you smarter than a fifth grader? If you are NOT open minded....then class, you are... what ...minded? If you attach the idea that open-minded is a code word for gay, then by your deciphering you must be gay. I put the man into a situation in which his hormones were flowing. I made the thought of the f/f sex that they watched as a reason for having a woodie. No bi intent mentioned. Made it clear they were comfortable enough with each other not to be too embarrassed to occasionally stroke themselves. I made the approach very sudden and undiscussed to free him of any pre-thought about saying yes or no to an oral m/m encounter. The question was... how many guys would look upon the situation as it was and be confident enough they were NOT gay, didn't 'like' men, but would at least try something it to see how it felt in a guy's mouth, without being ashamed of it or homophobic about it. Ask about something and some just answer. Others claw at the cage, rant, rave, commit violence, cry out to everyone, 'I am not one of them'! While others just assume no one would ever think they were. I think the word 'homophobic' was coined for these people who claim they are not when they were never asked or assumed to be. This seems to me that 'homophobic' conjures up the thought "why is he raving on so?" Me doth think ye protest too much. The beach exists. It is named Playalinda Beach. It is Part of the Cape Canaveral Natural Wildlife Preserve and the south end access ends at the north end of Cape Canaveral. So close to the shuttle launch pad that the road is closed when the shuttle is on the pad. It extends maybe 30 miles north. I visited the nude beach a couple of times a year to look at pussy for over thirty-five years. I have seen girls playing with each other in front of everyone. At the stair ramp over the dune there may be 100 people in a small area. A wife with a female friend would be completely safe. I have seen guys walking on the beach with their wife or girlfriend with their dick straight up. I have seen males laying alone playing with themselves. I have seen couples fucking and not stop as people walk by. I have seen men on their knees sucking another guy off. I had a dream when I was divorced and about fifty. Dreamed I went to Playalinda and some guy walks up to me, we talk for some time, and he just puts his dick in my mouth. Woke up with a hard-on. Was confused and wondered why such a dream would cause me a hard-on. I had never even thought about a dick. That was it! I had never thought about it! Girls love to suck it, what does it feel like in their mouth? I know I am not gay, but what does a dick feel like in your mouth? Made me curious. And yes, it made me open-minded enough to want to find out. Took me six months to get up the courage to go to the beach with the intention of finding out. Said Hi to every guy who walked by. Waved. Touched myself as we walked past 10 feet apart, told some they had a nice dick. Nothing happened. Finally sat down alone. One guy was about 50 yards away laying in the shallow of the beach sand run out and not obvious but could see him. I saw a wife and husband walking up the beach maybe 5 minutes stroll away. For kicks I sat there and played with myself until I had it up. I laid down and it stood straight up. They walked by about 50 feet away, he looked, then looked away. She never stopped looking, held her hand at her thigh and gave my the thumbs up. They turned and went back and she had her head over her shoulder looking. I continued to occasionally stroke it to keep it up, then I saw the guy 50 yards away start walking towards me. Asked me if I liked playing with it. Blurted out 'I want to suck one for the first time.' Don't know where that came from even, but that's what I said. He said well.... I don't know. I thought oh no! Then he said let's walk up the beach where no one can see. I jumped up and walking we went. He started towards a dip in the sand dunes. He began to get it up. A few yards we were there, he was full up. I dropped to my knees and he slipped it in my mouth. There is such a place. Things I said I have seen happen. And it was the biggest thrill since I first ate pussy. From the poll, when I looked at it, 7 guys said they would continue out of 25. That's one in four. That's all I wondered. A lot did not vote, so were not interested. Some answered in what I think most would call a homophobic way. You told us who you are. Be cool with it, be against it, be "it doesn't apply to me about it". Why get so upset you need to lash out to prove your masculinity when it has never been questioned?
  2. Swingers are open minded about sex. It is about excitement, thrill, new experiences, and fun. A given. Among women, a lot of wives are bi and enjoy dick and pussy too. Here comes that question, a spin-off of Tia Vampire's thread. You, your bi wife, and her bi female friend go to a nude beach. The girls began to play around and soon are masturbating each other, disregarding the dozen who pass by, some stopping to watch before walking on. You're half hard watching. A guy stops to watch the show the girls are putting on. He starts to get hard and after a few minutes you recognize you are getting a little too turned on and you decide to go for a walk up the beach to cool off. The guy stays to watch but a minute later walks on too. He soon catches up to you and you walk and talk till out of sight of anyone. You eventually stop and sit down on the sand to rest and the conversation has been about the girl/girl play your wife and friend were having and both of you, as guys do thinking about such things, start to get hard. Your conversation has made both of you really horny and both of you begin to occasionally stroke yourselves. The conversation evolves to the fact women can enjoy the fun of a dick AND pussy while the guy only gets pussy. You say that by simple math, guys are missing half the sex compared to girls. There is no fear your wife enjoying another woman's hot wet pussy, as you do, would make her or you think of her as a lesbian. Yet guys come with the mentality that any m/m contact is gay, without merit. You are both horny, slowly jacking yourselves off while talking. (I am writing this thread so it is mandatory that you magically know he is of no threat, and he is clean and STD free.) You are enjoying his company and conversation. He suddenly stands up and before you can react, steps forward and his dick is in your face. He puts his hand softly on your head and when you open your mouth to ask him....he slips his dick in your mouth. Your instinct is to pull away, but his hand is gently encouraging you not to, not forcing you. There is no one to see, you will never see him again, no one will ever know. His dick is already in your mouth. It is what a dick is, firm, fleshy soft and warm. Not an unpleasant sensation, and a first new something you have experienced since the first time you ate pussy. Would you, as an open-minded swinger who likes that his wife is bi ... 1. Be angry 2. Pull away and say I'm not into that. 3. Let it continue. 4. If you enjoyed the experience, think you would do it again sometime. 5. Think 'Done That' and not do bi again.
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