Ashley
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- Birthday 09/30/1954
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Ashley started following What percent of men give women oral sex?, How swinging differs in other countries, Does your doctor know you swing? and and 3 others
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Who does the work when it comes to swinging?
Ashley replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swingers Talk
L initiates.....I finalize.- 53 replies
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Finding it hard to believe that french kissing came in third.
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I hear ya Weezie....our favorite swing partners are the biggest sluts in the world and they DON'T use condoms. I love them to death but I would never have sex with them without the reassurance of that little piece of latex.
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If you aren't a newbie, what are you?
Ashley replied to OhioCouple's topic in Curious About Swinging?
I consider my boyfriend L a seasoned swinger but I don't think it's about how many women he can bed. He loves the social aspect and the sensuality of the experiences over the sex per se. He doesn't even ejaculate, he has learned the tantra non-ej orgasms. Having said that, he hasn't any patience with people who are unsure about what they want. If they are tentative or just curious, he is ready to move on. He'd prefer they have their first experiences with someone else. We seem to have better experiences with people who consider themselves "seasoned swingers".- 33 replies
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For me, it's STD prevention, I have an IUD for birth control. For L, it's both. And there's another thing I like about it.....may sound weird but because there is a barrier it's not as intimate in my mind as when L and I have sex. Of course there are other qualitative differences between our making love and swinging but those are my thoughts.
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If a man told me he didn't do oral that would end it. He could lose all his appendages except his tongue and I could still be a happy woman. Having said that I did have a boyfriend once who wouldn't do it.....but we were both very young and he was hispanic. I don't know if the hispanic culture...machismo, whatever had anything to do with it. Any hispanic gentlemen out there wanna comment?
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"Beautiful People Only!" Swing Clubs/Groups
Ashley replied to incommunicado's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
I would like to know how they pick their members. Do you have to audition or something? LOL I've been to a few clubs where I felt I didn't fit in but I've never been outright barred.- 148 replies
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Good point Matt, I am 48 and I have teenagers and I know from personal experience I never would've considered swinging when they were small....there just weren't enough hours in the day and I was pretty much exhausted by the end of it.
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It will come as no surprise to the regulars on this board when I say too often for me and not often enough for L....lol.
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I find most porn boring but certainly willing to watch as it puts L in the mood. We do have an interesting movie of some swingers at a Las Vegas club. We bought it because we have had the pleasure of swinging with one of the couples in it. Now that was a fun experience, seeing your swing partners on video.
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This is a subject that fascinates me. In my experience, about 10% of women admit to squirting. Some of them find it highly embarrassing. I have to say I get very wet, have some awesome full body orgasms but I have never felt squirting. L and I have even "tried" to produce that effect but to no avail. There is a theory out there that women who squirt are actually urinating....that their muscle contractions on orgasm are so strong that it forces the urine out. Does anyone have any references to scientific (not anecdotal) evidence on this topic?
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I have had a couple of boyfriends and a husband who wanted me to pee on them...I could never do it. Bashful bladder or whatever...probably the same mechanism that keeps me from orgasm in public.
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My family is not sexually open enough for anything like that to ever happen. I did meet a woman on the houseboat trip however that told me an intriguing story. It seems she came out to her adult daughter and since that time, the daughter and her hubby have become swingers also. Now they frequent the same club. V said it doesn't bother her so long as they don't share the same play space. I just can't conceive of ever being that open with my children.
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When will you stop swinging? I see lots of swingers well into their sixties but I'm not so sure that I want to swing that long. I wonder when people stop swinging due to age is it because they are having physical difficulties or do they just start to feel too unattractive? Do we have anyone in their sixties or seventies on this board that can provide first-hand impressions?