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NightGoddess

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About NightGoddess

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    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 05/22/1952

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  • Relationship Status
    Single Female
  • Location
    San Diego, California
  • Interests
    swimming in the ocean, music, travel
  • Occupation
    Surgical RN for 24 years
  1. Thanks for the positive input, everyone! I never knew there could be such a negative social reaction to, or judgment made about older women and younger men. My dearest has assured me he has no problem with our age difference....and says I don't look my age at all. I feel blessed to have a loving, wise, caring and devoted man in my life. You are right, that's all that matters...
  2. I had to resurrect this topic because I heard something the other day: my darling has a friend who asked him "How is Mom?" ---> meaning me. We have 14 years between us; I'm the 'older woman'. I was horrified and embarrassed. I'm not old enough to be his mother, but clearly something about our age difference bothers his friend. Can anyone add some perspective so I can get over my sadness about this comment? I've been in this relationship now for about 7 months and he is the most wonderful man I've ever known. He says he has no problem with our age differences. But I cringe a bit when I detect a reaction from people.
  3. Intercourse-alone-orgasms are the exception rather than the rule, viper, although I haven't checked any official statistics....has anyone else?
  4. Ditto to what Julie said! The other times it has happened is when my lover is away for a few days....it seems like all I need to do is think about him penetrating me and I'm almost there! Then....slow gentle action does it. Position may vary
  5. No Way! People who swing have gotten such bad air play out here in California due to that child-homicide (little girl murdered on the night her parents were swinging)-- it's an immediate reputation-killer. As if the parents somehow deserved or caused the tragedy....sad social reaction, but true.
  6. I'm in the minority here, as I have tried it several times....especially when I was married. My ex thought it was the greatest. It has been impossible to overcome my feeling of humiliation and degradation associated with anal sex. I wish I knew why I feel that way, but it kills the whole mood for me. I can't push away an emotion while trying to enjoy something. Perhaps my prejudice is too strong... It's cool other people find it great. It's just not for me.
  7. I'm surprised how many people here have tattoos and piercings! When my kids started asking questions about body modification, and the processes it involves, I suggested they surf the net and look at what's out there. The BME site is great for that...you can see the good, the bad, and the horrible. I started looking around for remarkable, extraordinary tattoos and discovered the best seem to come from Japan. To me, they are in a class that makes the stuff we see here in the US look really bad to the point of embarrassing. Anyone else notice this? As for me....no, thanks. My ears are pierced very conventionally, and I'm good with that. Don't have any weirdness about people who have Body Modification. It's a personal thing. Oh, to finish the story, after the kids checked out ink sites, one of my daughters had her wrist tattooed with a very fine line drawing of a perfect circle. She didn't tell me, but I noticed it right away. I casually asked her where she had it done, and if it hurt. Did you know Winston Churchill's mother had a tattoo of a snake encircling her wrist? --->Many pics are of new ink, so you don't see how they age. You can tell by the pink halo around the tattoo, a brief localized skin reaction to the dye and needles. Oh, both daughters had bellybutton piercings done as young teens, and both have since removed the rings to let'em heal closed. My son asked for an earring-type piercing on one ear in 5th grade or so. (gosh, this is almost 20 years ago!) I took him to have it done, and he's long since let his ear piercing close. Maybe the reaction they expected from me wasn't forthcoming, so they didn't get much bang for their buck. I drew the line at allowing them to do the tongue or facial piercings while they were under 18 years old. They seemed okay with my limits. Interesting topic!
  8. Duncan, sounds like you need 'quick relief'-- without the Drama. For this time, maybe you can keep things easy and let your fingers do the walking Perhaps with some help from your darling you'll get off and have a really light period. Unless you want to try what others are suggesting here and use a tampon and tuck the string outa the way while you get some oral action. Whatever works for you and your honey!
  9. Tim, I'm glad you defined Metrosexual. My darling made a comment about the concept the other day. Nope, we didn't disagree...it was a passing comment about a book discussing metrosexuals. So honestly, I didn't have a clue until I read this thread. I'd have to agree it is refreshing to know a man (finally) who takes care of his hair, skin, muscles....all of his body with the same care women have done for years. In the past it seemed most men would ignore their feet, pores, hair follicles, ears, etc. and consider gross behavior 'normal'. Okay....I'm referring to passing gas in mixed company....something my ex thought was a hilarious, thigh-slapping joke. I was mortified. I am glad American men seem to have discovered what European men have known for years...that well groomed, sexy men are drop-dead attractive. Metrosexuals do all of the things you mention, Tim and more: like hunt, go to museums, read serious literature, cook, invest time in friendships, visit their parents regularly and frequently, frequently tell their Significant Other they love them....yes, I would have to say it is a wonderful thing. Another thing you mention about metrosexuals: they aren't threatened by honesty. When I told my darling I had experience swinging, he wasn't offended, nor did he dismiss me or judge me. He has an open mind-- and is curious about everything. I find this kind of man to be far more intelligent and whole than someone who judges first (out of a feeling of inferiority) and asks questions later (usually much later). I don't think it's limited to the Lifestyle, though. Perhaps it's a new cultural phenomenon.
  10. Good topic! Some like the music hard and heavy....and maybe some like it slow and soft...... One of my classic pics is: 'Poetic Champions Compose' by Van Morrison. Two different men seduced me to that same CD....years apart! What a surprise! ....Nora Jones is a good choice too, as is Chris Isaak......thanks, Brit Pair! and kudos to jenanay for mentioning Sade....she is hot. --->anyone besides me into Carlos Jobim? His 'Wave' CD is beautiful. How about 'In the Tradition....a Collection of Classic Blues', by the Blues Alliance label? Or 'Halim' by Natacha Atlas [Egyptian, might not be for everyone....I found it very sensual...] or 'A New Day at Midnight' by David Gray.....might be too jazzy.... Or 'Mambo Sinuendo' by Ry Cooder. Stop me before I make a break for Tower Records!!!!
  11. I'm glad I'm not the only inconsistent voter here! Thank you Mrs-naughty!!! In general, I find them distasteful. There are so many poorly done and badly placed piercings, ear types included. Yesterday flipping through an anthropology book, I discovered a striking photo of a young man with scarification on his chest and shoulder (1 side) -- it was a tribal-thing, and because it was a cultural display, I found it interesting and strangely beautiful. The resulting texture on his body was amazing, especially contrasted with the large areas of smooth skin. Same reaction to Maori facial scarification and colors....I understand and accept the reasons. I've got a ton of respect for the clan-issues and identification principles inherent in Maori culture. Someone posted about tattoos as well here. The best technique seems to come from Asia. Most everything else looks like a cheap imitation to me. No offense meant to those here who wear ink or are pierced.
  12. How did I miss this fun thread?! EBF, kudos to you for starting it! -- and ga_cpl_frknit...it makes perfect sense to me!! All the name choices are awesome -- Eternally Single: you're not the only one at the beck and call of your elder family! I thought I'd be single forever, since I'm the only child living near my mom....and guess what? I am now seriously dating a man who knows he will be his parents' caregiver. Men like you are awesome. I know, 'cause my dad was the same. NightGoddess is the meaning behind my real name. It's Greek in origin, but very uncommon....so I had to avoid any reference to it.
  13. If it's a done deed, I suggest you have amnio-testing to make sure the baby is normal. Tell your Ob/Gyn you are unsure of the parentage. He may lecture you, but he may also be able to help you get some assurance of the child's health. Hope the man was STD-free. I recommend you not share this info with any family members.
  14. Hi Neil, I thought I'd put a few facts out there, and forgive me if you know this already: Have you and your wife considered in vitro fertilization? If your Mrs. is fertile...it wouldn't take many sperm to successfully conceive. Also, have your sperm been examined for normalcy? If you are producing simply too few normal sperm, perhaps the products of several ejaculates could be combined? I know this is not an infertility forum, and I apologize if you have gone this route without success. From a medical standpoint, I'd tell you to exercise some caution and speak with a specialist for other resources. Your child, or any child, is too important to be considered a roll of the dice, or a roll in the hay.
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