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6charlie

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  1. In my life I have found great value in the following premise; if I do something over and over or repetitively think/feel something this is somehow benefitting me, that is I'm reacting to my circumstances in a way that I subconsciously believe produces the best possible outcome. In this case you need to be asking yourself how am I benefitting by feeling and thinking the way I am? Your most likely response is that "I'm not benefitting, I'm miserable". The logical question that follows is "How am I benefitting from being miserable?" I don't know what your answers will be but when you finally get an answer you will probably be surprized. I would not be surprized if you found that you lost a certain kind of innocense that you held deeply and probably weren't aware of this internal standard until after the BJ was complete. Since this innocense is like virginity, once lost it's gone forever, you must then punish yourself forever and you do this by thinking and feeling miserable. I've entered this pattern serveral times in my life and once I realized its basis I was eventually able to laugh at myself for believing in such an extreme consequence for a BJ. It's as though you've blown your life for blowing a guy, that makes no sense.
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