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  1. swinging is never the answer to fix sexual or maritial problems, You two need to have a solid relationship first then work into the swing life style. Although swinging is becoming very popular again, as it was in the 70's, it is not for everyone, and without a strong relationship jeliousy and other issues will only hamper your relationship not improve it. However if you have that trusting relationship and can handle seeing your mate having the time of her life with another person, then you will be in for some sexual encounters like you never dreamed of. We both love to watch the other receiving pleasure at the hands of others, and joining them at times as well, and when we get home or somewhere alone, we are all over each other, like on our first date. LOL, good luck, and hope you get to the point where you can enjoy the swing life style, but be sure it is right for you before you jump in with both feet. J n S
  2. I don't think you are a slut, but I think you are way off the mark as to having a male friend who is engaged. His lady is probually correct in her concerns over him being around you. It has nothing to do with you, but there is a big difference between men and women, women seem to be ok with having friends whom they are not sexually attracted to, but for men, at least most warm blooded men interested in women, may or may not be attracted to the woman, but they will have sex with them in a heart beat, so for a man to have a female friend is possible but given the chance he would jump into a sexual relationship with her in a heart beat. If you do not believe this, the next time you are with him, get naked, and see where it goes, If I were a betting man, I would put my money on him being all over you in no time. Of course he may respect your wishes and if you tell him you are not into men or him and may go home and masterbate, but if you don't set any ground rules, then I am sure he will be trying to put the moves on you in a heart beat. Good luck, if you are married and swinging, why the need for a male friend who is about to get married any way? I am not judging you, just stating facts from a mans point of view. I too have some female friends, and except for the very fat ones, I would bang any of them in a heart beat. LOL> Again Good luck.
  3. We were both very experienced when we met, maybe why we hit if off so good. We used to make love for hours on end, all day sometimes, in varied positions and ways. We lived together for 2 years and finally got married. After 3 or 4 years we got into swinging, first as a 3 some with a lady, the several different ladies, and finally a 3 some with another man, and from there went on to full swinging, couples small groups, and lots of 3-somes. It all just fell into place for us, as we both loved wild sex so much, swinging just worked great. We had some minor issues with jealousy in the beginning, but in time we got over that, once we both realized this was all about physical sex, not love. Now we love to play with singles couples and small groups.
  4. a loaded question that most people would have to lie about, what good does it do to ask this type of question? My spouse, is a very hot lady, whom I have had some great sex with, both alone and with others. Is she the very best, she is great but I have had a few who were better. Not in every way and not every time, and maybe because there was no commitment it lent itself to being a bit more loose and wild. But I always leave the party with my spouse.
  5. We do not mind as long as it is among friends and all agree, and we get a copy as well.
  6. Hot tubs are a good intro, especially if everyone gets naked first, and we love it as an intro. But if you are a couple like us who does not own one, my experence is it is always awakard at first, but after some small talk, a couple things we do, is one my wife will say well shall we go in the bed room, and we all usually go there and things get going, or I will mention how it is always awakard the first time couples meet, followed by a "1, 2, 3 go, and start taking off my clothes, and others will follow. Face it we all know going into the meeting we are there to play, once the clothes come off, all is good, things happen naturally. One other thing we do alot is the wife is dressed in a sheer night gown with a light silk robe over it, so it is easy for me to slip off her robe as we are all talking and things just progress from there. It is amazing how nudity or simi nudity moves the party along to the next level. Good luck, and enjoy, once you are all naked or start stripping the rest will fall into place. The good thing about couples who are comfortable with each other, is sometimes it is almost a race to see who gets naked first.
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