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fun4usnh

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About fun4usnh

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 08/26/1965

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    COUPLE/HIM
  • Location
    So. New Hampshire
  • Interests
    SEX..SEX...SEX..What else
  • Occupation
    Sex instructor
  • Swinging Experience
    5 months

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    Club Sinz and Allure in N.H.
  1. We all just figured that it was all her doing and not paying attention to you or your wishes. The lifestyle is great if you can cum to grips with it all. But YOU MUST BOTH AGREE that it is or is not for you and go from there. Go slow and be careful This is exactly what we are going to do GO SLOW, we are just gonna do the clubs for quite a while then see what happens. We went to a club last fri. and that was fun again, she had all the guys, as one woman put it, drooling, while she played with a couple other women. We definetly have a good time so slow it is for now, who knows maybe it will never leave the club and that's fine with me.
  2. Just wanna let y'all know that I talked to her boss and things are fine now and we went to a club this past fri nite and they were there and he was a perfect gentleman, no touching or anything. I feel a whole lot better since the talk, boy was I nervous prior to that conversation.
  3. Ask them I know the couple, they are from NH, and they are a great couple. Just met them at a club in NH called Allure. See them both in swappernet. Their screen name is JJNH, he'll love to answer you. They have both been to the playboy mansion too...
  4. Hello all, Well it's been a while now and things have calmed down quite a bit. We have talked and worked things out, I decided she doesn't have to quit her job because I know there was no bad intention here. I know my wife loves me and I love her too. The fact is this incident was just my worst fear come true. Yes I do feel as if she went behind my back, not cheated, deep down I know she wouldn't cheat on me. We both decided to get into this together, this whole boss thing took a while to adjust to, so I finally convinced myself it was ok, but deep down inside I know it bothered me. Well when the whole BJ incident took place it just all came back, the fears again and I went bezerk. One of the problems with this all also was his wife wasn't into this or me very much which made me feel left out. No more taking one for the team. As for swinging, IF we get back into it, not at this point though, we have learned from our mistakes(newbie drama) as her boss put it. We both enjoyed it tho otherwise, we liked the time spent after talking about it afterwards and it really spiced up our life. If I had just followed my heart from the beginning everythig would be ok. I am going to have a talk with him this week to let him know that all is ok and I'm not mad at him. I will tell him what my fears were at the beginning of this all and tell him the complete truth. I hope we can still be friends though. Thank you all for your support and emails, you have all helped one way or another. To all the newbies here, if you have a question ask it here they will help you, they have been through it all it seems.
  5. Please don't throw in the towel too easily. Work on this. We are actually working on this. We made love this am. and it was Wonderful, actually this helped, we were never saw passionate as this as I said it was wonderful, there were tears and lots of hugging squeezing and lots of I'm sorrys and most of all a whole lot of I love yous. It felt great this morn.
  6. We have both used these before as we lost our son at birth 11.5 yrs ago and I am using these steps and I'm working on #5 now .Thanks. They should have a #6 TIME... will heal all
  7. Drives me insane in a very bad way, ya know crazy people hear voices, all I see is this episode and thats not what I want to see because it's drivin me frigin crazy :whiteflag I'm sinking
  8. This tells me that maybe they weren't as well suited to the lifestyle as you might think. If I was playing hostess to another couple in my home, I'm not going to get shit-faced drunk (leading others to perhaps believe that I need to be drunk in order to enjoy their company, or that I'm really not having a very good time), go upstairs and leave my husband in the awkward position of playing host sans mari. Does that say "unhappy marriage" to you? Because it sure hints at that for me. Well about this, the wife mentioned on the way home that this has happened b-4 w/other couples. I believe that she really isn't into this whole thing and she's playing just to make her hubby happy and that the other couple has done the 3sum after she passed out. hmmm a pattern here I think. It's been a long day, no sleep last night (visualizing her blowing him over & over again) I will get over it tho it will just take time. Time heals all they say!!! So I'm going to lay down for a while try to nap and think of puppy dogs and rainbows. That should work huh....
  9. 1. Respect the rules. Where you lost me above is that she broke rule #2 - but you admit things would have been just fine this morning if the two of you had broken rule #1. If you set rules, play by them. I am not 100% sure that breaking rule #1 would have been a good thing. How would the passed out boss' wife feel about that this morning? You had rules - and you BOTH need to follow them. Yes you are absolutely correct had it come down to it ,hmmm it may not have happened. Can't say for sure tho. We are goin to work things out, it's just all I can picture in my mind right now is her on her knees it drives me crazy.
  10. Thanks JM157 I have calmed down just to let you know. I was all set to move forward TOGETHER but as a forsome or last nite could have been a 3sum but she stated to me b4 that she wasn't up for that. Yes I do love her an awful lot but something was lost last nite and I don't know if we'll find again, I hope so tho.
  11. It's morn and I have cooled down some. I made her write her boss an email explaining that she fucked up last nite and that this lifestyle is over since it was supposed to be our first swing and she blew it (no pun intended)on the first chance. What would happen next time? As far as the shoe on the other foot she said she would be pissed too, she knows she really fucked up. What do you all think about still goin to her xmas party. I told her I didn't want to go on the 16th cause I'll be uncomfortable in that position. Drinking plays a bad part in this lifestyle and I told her that, also said at any time she's swaying we go home at any function........
  12. Happened last nite, she said she wasn't drunk just buzzed. The boss is definetly over. Swinging is over also, she can't follow the rules. She said if I stayed in the house we could have a 3some but she never let me in on that, if that had happened all would have been fine today.
  13. Also I believe she cheated on me....meaning this incident was cheating
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